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ok, so i went to a concert saturday night and did what you suggested. it wasn't that hard to say hi to people surprisingly, and there were a couple of cuties there too. but i was also starting to worry about, ok, how do i carry on a conversation? how would i keep a girl interested?
Stop trying to carry a conversation man. That's the biggest misconception about learning game that guys don't understand. You can't build rapport with someone you don't know. Well you can... but its backwards engineering.
Think about it like this... what do you and you're friends talk about? Absolutely nothing and everything. You just talk about whatever may come to mind, and esculate off of that.
When meeting women in a social setting, initially they do not want to know anything about you. They don't want to divulge any information either. Break rapport.
Don't try and get to know them... Try
not get to know them. I go gaming at least twice a week with no wings at major dance clubs, I let the club be my wing. I talk to an HB for two mins and when the thread runs dry, I walk away. They are absolutely no social rules to follow in night settings.
When talking to a girl, try intially qualifying her as an opener.
"Hey you seem like you could be a cool person. Before I go, tell me three intresting things about yourself, but no not really. This is a cool concert though, right?"
Flood her emotions. I do this all the time. I dance with one HB, and get my camera ready, and take a picture with another while still dancing. Break rapport man. Condition yourself to failing, it'll give you more success than anything esle.
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