Hi there, my name is Sidochan and I'm a pussy-a-holic. I'm not here to get over this problem however, but rather to become better at getting more of what I am addicted to.

I have been reading pua stuff for two years now, and have yet to approach. Today, after logging off of this site, I will go the mall and talk to ten girls. I am so nervous. My goal is to "get rejected" ten times. I think it should be easy. The point of today is the initial "walk-up" which I have never had the cojones to do.

I am not the club type guy and I think after all of my reading about puas etc I am more inclined to be the daygame dude as it fits in with how I carry myself etc.

I have joined this site today to make it, my goal, seem "more real" to me and to put my mission out there for the world to see. I have no one to turn to besides the people on this forum. My brother, the jock, gets girls left and right, and makes jokes about me reading this stuff. My friends are all pathetic and are more interested in playing video games and smoking pot then they are in actually helping their "brother" - me - deal with my insecurities with walking up to women.

So...today I walk alone. I will approach ten girls in order to get rejected. If I get a number so be it, that is not the point of today. Its about overcoming a fear. And the more I type about it, the more nervous I get, so I will sign off and be back later tonight with some approach stories for anyone who's interested.

Fear is the mindkiller!!

Just read this:

In your introductory thread, I recommend you tell us:
>where you're located
>your age
>how you got into "the game"
>how long you've been studying and practicing pickup
>which pickup method(s) you like to use
>what your hobbies/passions are
>what your goals are
>and whatever back story you wish to share with us.

Ok----->
I'm in Ontario, Canada
I'm 33
I first read about Speed Seduction in Rolling Stone mag about ten years ago, then I learned some NLP and forgot all about speed seduction, but effectively used the NLP to change my personal life for the better. I was still getting girls then so I was unconcerned with the Speed Seduction part overall.
Then about five years later I stopped getting girls...around 2004 or thereabouts (when I first noticed my baldspot and went insane)...I found a site called sosuave. I would read the articles on that site weekly but never went into the forums or beyond the "articles" section.
Then, last year (all you people who are pua's and teach it to others in order to make money should cover your ears and go lalalalalala) I found a site that enabled me to download - for free - a "mystery method" seminar and some cool e-books by Savoy, Carlos Xuma, and Style. I read them.
I was totally blown away, I was dumbfounded. Why didn't I start reading this years ago??!?!?! So I went into the sosuave forum, and asked tons of questions about everything from "inner game" to "can a short, skinny, balding dude still get girls with dj techniques" etc etc
The answers were yes, yes, yes, absolutely. I just needed confidence.
So THIS year and half of last year I have worked on my confidence and started working out. I have shaved my head and gotten cooler clothes. I have great body language now and can effectively neg girls.
My future goals are to work on my career, while simulataneously trying to become a better guitarist and pua.

I had tons of girls in high school, then lost my "game" due to the pressures of life. I had good game once and I know I can do it again.

That being said, on with the approaches...

Haha. I get the feeling that I am talking to myself here. But no matter. It didn't take me ALL day to do my approaches. I will admit I got a little lazy (the sky was grey and dismal and the malls were also dismal as well as almost empty) but I did get ONE number today and I only made two approaches.

Approach one:
Hi how are you, what are you looking for?
FINE, JUST LOOKING FOR SHORTS
Do you work here?
YES
Cool, what kind of shorts you looking for?
WELL THIS IS A MENS STORE SO THEY'RE NOT FOR ME
Oh I see, anyway I didn't come in here to buy anything, I was just walking by and I thought you looked adorable so I thought I'd pop in to say hello. Are you from this city?
NO BUT I'VE BEEN HERE A YEAR NOW GETTING READY TO START COLLEGE
Oh so you are still in high school?
NO NO, I JUST HAVEN'T BEEN TO COLLEGE YET
Oh cool. Let me guess, you're talking Political Science
OH MY GOD WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT?
Am I right?
WELL I'M TAKING SCIENCE BUT NOT POLITICAL SCIENCE
Oh so do you want to be a scientist?
NO I'M WORKING ON A SCIENCE CREDIT SO I CAN TAKE DENTISTRY
(I cover my mouth) Do you secretly judge people by their teeth?
HAHA, NO BUT I LIKE A GUY WITH GOOD TEETH
I have great teeth (I smile) don't you think? Listen I have to go but I'd like to see you again
I HAVE A BOYFRIEND THOUGH
Oh, ok. ( I gave up here, it WAS my first approach ever) well thats good. Its nice to have someone to spend your time with, especially in a new city. You are lucky to have found someone cool.
MEH. I GUESS. (as in: he's not THAT cool, at this point I realized I could have got her after all, but still ejected as I could feel my face turning beet red)
Well nice meeting you, good luck with the boyfriend...


Approach two:
Can I ask you a question?
SURE
Do girls prefer guys to hit on them directly or indirectly?
WELL, WHAT DO YOU MEAN? I GUESS DIRECT IS BETTER, WHY?
Direct eh?
FOR SURE
Ok, well hi there, I think you are unbelievably cute and I'd like to get to know you better. I've already walked by twice trying to get up the nerve to come and say hi
ARE YOU FROM THIS CITY?
No, I live outside it a bit.
WHEREABOUTS? (I told her where. She said she lived down the road, which was near a spot where I once went to play guitar so I dhv by saying the following):
Oh no way, when I first got my car (having a car is big in this city) I went near your place to sit by the falls (how peaceful) with my guitar (showing that I have musical talent) to practise. Its so nice playing guitar with the sound of the rushing water in the background and all the trees around, its so serene.
THAT DOES SOUND LIKE FUN, HEY WHATS YOUR NUMBER? (I almost crapped my pants, SHE asked ME for the number first)

Anyway...she ran to get a pen (note to self: start carrying a pen) and came back and thats when I realized we didn't even exchange names so I injected some kino:

---Oh my god (I grab her elbow) I didn't even get your name. She told me, I shook her hand, told her my name, then she wrote down her number and asked me to write down mine.

And now here I am. I am now LESS afraid to approach and only now do I FULLY understand what I have read in all the pua books. I could have done alot better with both approaches and going forward I will work on this til I get it right and yes I know, next time I will approach waaay more women not just two..

Cheers!

taking a guest that your rejection method work well?

It worked well, but I still have to keep going. I should have done all ten rejections but instead I stopped at approach number two (when I got the number). It probably would have been more conducive to my success to keep going until I was actually rejected ten times.
So...I will go out again and try to get rejected again. This time I will do all ten approaches - win or lose.

When finished I'll post my results on here again for anyone who's interested.

My goal in the next two months or so is to save tons of money and do ten approaches a week.

Wish me luck.

Well done mate! Good luck and keep going!

Nice one dude!! Keep it up and you'll be a master PUA in no time