Hi Guys, I live in Poway California (on holidays at the moment) and thought id join up to this forum after reading (as most others have) the game. Its bit of a shock all the mistakes I was making haha.

While introducting myself I was hoping I could ask a question. I had this girl basically who i flunked it with awhile ago.

She was a friend, we got close she didn't want to date at that point in time (she was previously in a few relationships) we are both in our early 30s. Two months in I told her how I felt about her (loved her) it scared her away she didn't feel the same etc. She was hanging out etc with other guys at the time and wanted to keep it like that. I blew it with an argument and now we don't talk. I think based on what iv read on here the mistake was coming across as 'needy' and basically been to easy to get.

The question is how would a PUA go back and restore it? I don't plan on doing it but I am interested on what someone would do. I think it would be an interesting challenge and some of you guys here would know how it works.

This is like posting a question on the medical forums:

Hey, so I recently bought this gun and shot myself in the foot... How would you medical folk go about restoring this?

To employ another one of my most hated stylistic devices, 'prevention is better than cure.'

We do not have sufficient details about the relationship to give you any useful advice. While I believe every situation is recoverable, you're looking for the easy way out.

Your problem is deeper than making one mistake with this one girl. Unless you sacrifice a lot of time and effort into learning the way attraction REALLY works, recovering from this faux pas will be pointless. You'll simply make another one within a week - that I can pretty much guarantee.

My real advice: FTOW. If you can't do thatt, forget this girl and find another one.

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On we plough.

Love,

Ace

Thanks for the advice that was extremely good. I definitely agree about the making the mistake one week later thing. I don't plan on doing it though but it does show me that if I asked the question I have along way to go in learning.