I just turned 25 and lets just say I am about as AFC as they come. Communicating with women has always been a problem for me. I can freeze, become rude, or just screw it up. I have very little experience in such matters. In 2008 I had sex 1 time and it wasn't even that good. My picking up chicks score is 1. I had sex with only 4 women.


I came here because I realized that I am one of those AFCs that just doesn't get it. So in order to handle that part of my life I decided to begin with ordering The Game by Neil Strauss. Most of the time, be it in pubs, bars clubs, malls etc, I ALWAYS look but rarely say anything. I just don't know what to say, EVER. However, now that i got to page 110 in The Game, I really like the material and realize WHY I failed. I am just one of those AFC that might have to read The Game 2 times.


I guess that at first I will focus on improving my game rather then succeeding. So the point is to get good, like black guys, not to score on the first try in my life.

Welcome to our world. It's going to change your life for the better... FOREVER, and you'll NEVER go back to being an AFC!



No matter what, stick to it! If a girl rejects your approach, she rejected your APPROACH, she knows nothing about you, so she can never possibly reject YOU as a person. Every day from here on out should be an experiment and learning experience for you!



Sarge on dude!

If you have any questions at all, ASK!

Thanks charlie, I really appreciate the reply. Some of the areas that Id like to focus are Openers and conversations. As well as body language.