well hi guys, im hopefully going to change my life flip reverse, and get some women. for once!! im going to have a few nights out, but from new years, im going to hopefully just go out and sarge sarge sarge!!! right a bit about me!!

im 19, from manchester, u/k, but go to uni in sheffield, studying art. im a big guy (not fat, i hit the gym quite alot, maybe too much), quarter cast - have been told i resemble gok wan. not cool. i wear glasses because im a wimp over contacts, and im a bit indie, gangstery. im average looking id like to say, ive had alot of older women say im handsome though??!?!

my success with women hasnt really been that good. ive had one girlfriend, broke up without having sex with her, met her up one drunken night, had the worst sex ever in a alleyway, totally ruined our relationship even as friends. ive only kissed 3 girls in my life,.

ive read the game, rules of the game, alot of e books, and just been a geek reading up about pua but not going out and doing it. My main fear is aa. but when i do talk to girls im alright, but i run out of stuff to say. and i am ONE mint dancer lol

well anyway lets stop living in the past. My main aims within the next 3 weeks or so, is when im out to:

- approach some women
-set up a frame
- get some decent peacocking stuff

any help or comments will be appreciated, and ill update you when i next go out, which will be thursday for a works do woop!!!

the AA was originally hard for me to get over too, but once you start opening sets, it gets a LOT easier. i really look forward to seeing sets of HBs now, i want to open them all!

reading those books is great, but field practice is what its all about. theres no way you will remember to use everything you've read, but get the fundamentals down, and you'll find that after a while you randomly bust out routines that you didnt even remember reading.

glasses shouldnt be too much of an issue, as long as you use them to peacock. dont wear normal dorky glasses, and if you have giant telescope lenses in them, man up and get contacts.

one last thing, when you get better at stories and kino routines, you'll find that you rarely run out of shit to say b/c the girls will talk to you, and you'll find all sorts of crazy things to talk about. a rule i use is to start a Kino gambit whenever i run out of shit to say. they find it interesting, and you move up a notch, its great.

good luck, and go sarging whenever you can, never make excuses.

How is this a field report?

cheers guys

well today ive been to the gym, and am currently vegging out on the couch watching oprah on diva tv. some pua i am!!! ive had a thought though, if i cant get out to the girls, make the girls come to me - BREAKTHROUGH!!!...............

FACEBOOK!!

ive got tonnes of girls i never talk to on facebook, so ive decided to kind of pick a new one out every day when i dont go out, and kind of facebook sarge. Theres this one whos a model, never talked to her before, im going to opinion open her when shes next on and tease her a bit, ill put the convo on here d.w., but for now im just going to browse the online forum-y bit nd get some info.

ill write again tonight after i message her, but until then a quick question: can i post photos up yet or do i have to write some more posts?

cheers

and this is going to be a kind of diary type report thingy type thing by the way. word

well just got back from work, after having an emergency call and having to go in for 2 hours, and just noticed how many ioi's i actually get from girls lol i was waiting for the bus with my mother - she finished at 9 aswel, i dont go out with her all the time - and this pretty young about 7 sat at the bus stop next to me. She aske me for a light and i said no because i dont smoke, and after that she kept looking at me and messing with her hair. i don't know if it was just because she wanted a hit of nicorette or because she wanted my sexy booodayyy but i was like 'wow'. but i am not gaming a girl in front of my mother!!! lol right onto facebook girl!!!!!

morning peeps, well afternoon here in the good old sunny u.k. had my staff doo last night. word of warning, do not do squats at the gym the day before your expected to dance!!

rather poop for women if i do say, just some girls i used to work with, non of which i highly rate. so there goes that. and facebook girl hasnt been on. arghh. don't even know when the next time im going to be going out is. arghhh arghh. and my facebook isnt even working so i cant even sarge on that.

uni work it is until facebook is up. if anyone has seen no country for old men, can someone please explain the ending to me.

i dont mean to be a dick, but it sounds like you are making a lot of excuses to stay in your comfort zone. first its no bars, then no sarging in front of mom, then no HBs at the work thing, then no internet. Your mother would probably be thrilled to see you hitting on a cute girl, you could at least get some practice on some less-than-desirable girls at the work thing, and i know you can find a mall or park to go sarge in for free.

your day game is going to be important, and you need to work on it as much as possible.

internet gaming is ok, i know people who have a lot of success with Myspace, but you need to get the face-to-face interaction down or you will fail when you meet the online girls up close.

just my two cents. the biggest difference between PUAs and AFCs is that the PUAs get past the excuses and comfort zones.

thanks aj, i know i have to get out of my comfort zone but i never knew it would be so hard to push myself out of it!!! im going to try and push myself in little bits, which ill think about tomoro since im tired and ive got work to do!!

well just chatted to facebook girl, and totally afc'd on here, wrote to her sayin hiya. no reply. what was i thinking, can i be any more boring. ill leave it a few days nd write her again, hopefully with something a bit more exciting.

right well, went out last night woop some good points and bad points. just sumarise the night now:

started out feeling pretty good, went out with my friend (ging) whos an amazing natural - average, ginger but supreme confidence - and we hit 42's a club in manchester. went in and it was quite packed, and i was dying for the toilet so went there and ging comes out saying 2 of my other mates were in venue a club accross the road. so we head across there, felt quite good because we jumped the que as my friend had a membership card or somethin.

anyway we gets there gets a drink and i see these two absolute lovelys (7 and a shy 9), staring at me. aa kicks in and of course, my minds saying its not me there looking at blah blah blah. me and my mates have a bit of a dance and get another drink. as im at the bar the 2 lovelys stand next to me. too scared to talk yet again. strike 2.

back on the dancefloor and ging starts getting iois off this indie 7. she dances with him and stuff but has a bf in the club with her. me and another mate (frodo - looks like a blonde frodo) head outside to get some air, and see indie 7. he starts chatting her up using the worst lines ever, heres the transcript:

frodo - 'have you got a boyfriend?'

indie - laugh - 'yeh'

frodo - 'you are beautiful, i just wanna take you round the corner and ruin ya!'

indie - slightly shocked 'ooo alright cheers'

frodo - 'fancy a fuck then?'

indie girl - 'noooooooo'

frodo - classic - 'you think your dead nice because you got your haircut at toni and guy. fuckin dyke'

there went that conversation

night cont...

well after being in hysterics at frodo for about 2 hours, we went back in. i saw my friends girlfriend (smurfette - shes 5 ft tall, with about a foot being hair lol shes about a 7) so i talk to her for a bit and have a dance with her.

right now this huge 6 ft 6 stick thin woman sees me dancing with her and literally rapes me. she comes and dances right on me. it was wrong i tell you. and she was about 40!! i tell ging to please get me some room, so he takes her to the side and talks to her. he comes back, hugh grin saying 'she wants you mate!!' cringe. i literally ran to the toilet.

ging left to go to 42s for a bit to find his mate, so me and frodo are left dancing. next thing frodo's marching up to the two lovelys, who i had forgot about. cringe cringe. he drops the line on the 7. 'have you got a boyfriend' of course she spit out the yes, while giving me a 'move your friend' look.

i was thinkin oh my god i cant come back from this, but fuck it, whats the worst that could happen, and i siddle upto the 7 and ask 'wheres better, here or 42's?' she couldn't hear me because the music was absolutely rotten loud, so i waited till the music was quiet and said come outside. she said she didnt have a jacket and it was freezing, but shes come to the door bit where its quieter.

so her and 9 come waltzing over, and we start shooting the shit. tbh i was very proud of myself, and i was keeping her attention great. she had just been made redundant at a solicitors. the 9 was just stood there, and i knew i had to get her involved, so i asked her which club was better.

after this i just went downhill, and i think i let the conversation stale out, since i didnt switch the subject. ging came back and diverted my attention his way, and on that note the 7 tapped me on the arm and said we'll cya later.

after that the night wasnt much good since i babysitted smurfette and made sure she got home alright. lessons learned -

- dont be scared to approach, whats the worst that could happen
- dont linger on a thread too long
- maybe i should re open later?

sorry this post is huge, but i like to include all the details, ocdish or whaaaaa?