Allo. I'm new.

A girl that I work with makes a significant point of trying to alienate me or anybody I am chatting up, inserting herself in the conversation and being overtly awkward. It is some response to me sleeping with women at work... etc. She makes a big show of characterising me as "something out of 'The Game'".

So I read "The Game", and thought that instead of shying away from my built in similarity to some of these methods, why not just embrace the techniques, and see if I can deal with this girl at the same time.

Any thoughts on how to cool her off/ effectively parry the blows/ use her attentions (albeit negative) to my advantage in building connections with targets?

In the interest of introductory information, I am 22 and in Chicago.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again (even though I am very hammered at the moment). It is better to be wrong and strong, than to be in denial. If she calls you out as a PUA, then just admit to it. Start a new thread about how fascinating human psychology is and you will be golden.

If she compares you to a 'character out of The Game' then she already know subconsciously that you have somewhat of a high value. Don't ever defend yourself against such accusations, just let them roll off your back. As long as you are very comfortable and competent with your self, then you do not need to worry about how others see you.

If your frame is stronger than hers, then it doesn't matter what you are guilty of; those who surround you will have no choice but to join your reality.

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