Hi, I've just finished reading The Game and have been dangerously studyin NLP in order to become a better PUA. I used to be great with girls, a natural, the I settled down for too long, fell in love and had my heart broken. Now it seems I don't have the confidence I once had...

Everything from initial conversation (what to talk about?!) right through to taking her home... I've become disarmed!

I used to have a great technique and all my friends would pick any woman in the bar to do it to; I'd go up and offer them a drink, simple. Any girl will say yes (i'm in Essex, UK by the way!) then I'd walk off as if going to get them one but go back to my group of friends. Gauranteed everytime; 15-20 mins later they'd be back "where's my drink?!"

Well... that was the ice broken!

I need help from someone, there's a girl I really like at a local restaurant, we've spotted each other as I eat there frequently, she's small, blonde, and hot lol. She smiles at me but I don't know if she's being polit or what... where do I start?!

Any help would be much appreciated

I am in the same situation mate,

I used to have good game but lost it after 2 years with a girl. Just getting back into it.

Just keep your confidence up, Flirt with alot of chicks and the positive reponses will keep you driven. I am still getting back to it but I am starting to see a bit of success.

Cheers, it's good to know there's a few people here in the same boat as me!

Would you mind giving me some pointers on how to start? What to say, good conversation topics etc.. like, whats worked for you so far?

hello

Uh... hi...

Something useful to add there bro?

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