I think these things are affecting my inner game, I haven't been field testing yet, just reading theory. But I don't know how to game with the lack of the essential assets. I'm 23 BTW and I'm going to college in the fall, I dunno how to work with this.

What things are you talking about or was I missing something?

- Chris

The fact that I'm living with the rents still and have no car, because I can't really bring girls back to my place. As I mentioned I am going to school, so I can't afford my own place. Oh and I forgot to mention I have no friends either.

Sorry I processed that first post weird for some reason and didn't connect the two sentences lol (I've been having some long nights).

Don't worry about it man. I started learning direct pick-up as a junior in high school from a friend; I had no idea of the community's existence at the time so I didn't have the widespread connections and methods but I did not get my license until I was almost 21.

THESE ARE EXCUSES! A woman will love you for you and once you start attracting women you will realize this. Think about the beginning of The Game; Mystery was dating women with model looks but was living in his mother's basement. a woman will forego (in most cases) a man with a Beemer, a 12,000 sq.ft. home and a yacht for a man who can make her FEEL the way she desires.

You need to get out of this male mindset that you need material things to get a woman. I understand not being able to bring girls back to your place but that is no excuse for not getting women. Go back to her place if you need to, have sex in her dorm.

The only essential asset you need is YOU.

- Chris

Thanks for the advice. How exactly do I get to "her" place if its the end of a date? Like how would I suggest to go to her place without explicitly stating that. (Assuming the date went well, I built comfort, rapport, kino, etc.)

You want to suggest just going to your place or hers to check out something that would interest her. Unconciously, If a woman wants to sleep with you she will not go for fear of looking like a slut. If you give her an excuse such as wanting to see something that may interest her or going back to have dinner.

The subconcious doesn't analyze things; it doesn't know the difference between what it sees and what it remembers or between a real and imagined memory and accepts everything as a truth (with a few exceptions but that's getting into secondary gain issues).

Anyway, if you tell a woman you want to go back she will subconciously feel comfortable about going back to your place as long as it's implied that it is not for sex.

- Chris

Same here, im 23, no car and live with parents.
But to my suprise it hasn't held me back, it makes things more difficult because you really need to find a girl with her own gaff, and there's alot of girls who fit into that catagory.
Also getting back to their place hasn't been a problem for me, they will say things like 'do you want to go back now'.
Offer to walk them home, or just walk them home anyway and when you get to their door if their into you (or dont want to be rude) they're invite you in.

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well, starfox (good game by the way, i'm a fuckin nerd, ha ha)

i'm in the same boat. i'm 19 though, i used to live on my own but i moved back in with the parents, but i just like to call them my roommates if anyone asks, ha.

but when it comes to bringing a girl back to your house, or room more specifically, after you start seeing a girl for a while, just have her come over late at night after your parents went to bed.

i've never done it, but that's how my older bro did it. i never saw his gf when she was over... sigh, he's a natural with the ladies and i'm a typical afc...

but hang in there.

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Thanks for the help guys. I'll try not to let this situation affect my confidence.