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phorm
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 Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 7:32 pm Post subject: what if the girl drives a better car than you |
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| I might be having a date this weekend. More because of just dumb luck. Anyway, she drives a Lexus which is better than the car I got. We might just meet somewhere but if not, should she drive me or I drive her? I own a KIA and she owns a Lexus. What should I do ? |
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Methuselah
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| Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 9:28 pm Post subject: |
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| do nothing, play it by ear and stop worrying about stupid shit. if you attract her enough it won't matter what the hell you drive. i drive a ford escort with a missing sideview mirror and a jumpy transmission and my current girls drive an infiniti g35 and ford expedition. dont sweat the simple shit bro, work on getting the girl. if you drive or she drives it doesnt matter, id offer at least. |
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Crasher
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| Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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| dont worry about it i drive a 98 ford contour but what i like to do if the start mentioning how bad my car is i tell them my car is built for speed except i dont know about a kia |
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Arkitekt
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| Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 7:56 pm Post subject: |
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I would just make sure that if you do drive, that your car is spic-and-span.
...as in squeaky clean.
vacuumed
no french fries under the seats
no dust on the dash
no old newspapers lying around
no food crumbs what-so-ever
Outside washed and wheels clean if possible.
You get the point. |
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zomgpp
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| lol, I was talking to a girl about what she drove and I was like "yea, I got an Accord. It's the one with half the side missing, you can't miss it" she seemed to think it was funny... My friend drives a shitty ass nissan and gets lots of girls... |
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saqchek
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Wreck hers. Problem solved.  |
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PM88ENG
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| If you're worried she'll judge you by the car brand, sell the Kia and buy an older BMW or Mercedes for the same money, they never go out of style and you'll have one less problem in your relationship to worry about. |
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Murdoc
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| Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 9:59 pm Post subject: |
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| this may seem counterproductive to the point that the car doesn't matter, but did she actually pay for this lexus on her own? if daddy gave her a lexus for her 16th birthday and you bought your own KIA, I'd say that's one up on her in terms of cars. |
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Yillan
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| The car you drive doesn't matter, though as someone else said before: make sure it's clean. |
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The Wild One
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Well first off you need to stop caring about her car. I'm not a rich guy but I can tell you one thing I got allot of things rich guys don't have. If you are nervous about this it shows an inner game problem. You need to be comfortable with classy women. They're usually the most well put together depending on if she bought the car. I think this is possibly a bargain girl that is not looking for a guy to wine and dine her but get to know her as a person. You need to get close to her, and under the covers. She won't be thinking about your car then. If her friends give you shit it will only make her become closer to you because of that bond you share. Send me a pm and I will tell you how to handle this situation perfectly.
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Roads
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| saqchek wrote: | | Wreck hers. Problem solved. |
Dude, you forgot the cardinal rule: CHECK IT before you wreck it 
Anyway, the key is not to feel intimidated by her wealth. Remember, You Are The Man. |
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TonyT
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| Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 2:13 am Post subject: . |
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Ask her is she trying to impress you by the car shes driving - use it against her. Say that material things dont mean much to you. You find other things attractive in a girl.
Mention a friend who has a decent car, and mention the low level of girl it attracts. |
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chicocat21
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First of all, find other ways to DHV that don't involve your car. A good one would be what Tony mentioned: material things not being too important to you.
Second of all, look into the future. You can use this with new women by saying things such as "the previous girl I dated drove a Lexus and ...."
Fact is, what you have or don't have doesn't matter. What matters is how well you can manage her emotions. |
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