Hi guyz,
first of all let me introduce myself. I'm a 40 yrs old married man with a 10 yrs old daugter. i have to confess i always was, is , and will be someone who need to conquer new HB's.
Now that i am beeing married, it's a bit more complicated, but i still can make it happen sometimes.
I am do not consider myself as a PUA, since i respect so much the skills they show sarging. I have to confess that i often try openers, games, texting games with success, but i never been so much inside the game to be called PUA.
Oh yeah, and i'm french, living in Paris.
So, now i have to expose my issue. I have met this girl at work few years ago. She was a fresh new mom, married, and hot. A pure HB 8.5 for my standards. At this time we were just teamates. Nothing more. And facebook friend as well.
6 months ago, i could figure out she was posting new pics, sowing her with a brand new style. I would say, a kinda "now i am free and i want to taste life!!" style. So as an interested dude, i had to congrate her for those changes. And guess what ? she replied !
Then i decided to get a bit more intimate, and after few exchanges, we met by coincidences at a lunch time. I could sense she was happy to meet me, so i decided to invite her for lunch.
After few lunches, few texting, facebook messages, sexting, eyes teasing, we dated for a party in bar. We spent the evening in her car, without going to the party. We kissed like teenagers, with a lot of touching. She was not abble to come at my place, as my wife and daughter were sleeping. Her place was unavailable as well. But believe me guyz , that was really hot !!
That was last Friday.
Since then, on monday, she was different.... pretexting that she does not want to fall in love, to suffer, considering my situation.
i have reacted the exact way to ruin everything i built to achieve my goal...
As she was not really answering, i felt i was being needy, and i was about to make all the mistakes an alpha man can't make.
This wednesday i texted her using game style, using some negs, and push-pull techniques...with success. Thanks guyz
!! So she agreed another lunch yesterday.
i could see she was still very attracted, and my game was on point, but sometimes a bit fragile. At the end of the lunch , i was 75% sure i was about to have a second chance....
This morning, she was there at the cofee break, we had exchanges but just like colleagues do. But i saw she was happy, and smily when she saw me. When i went back to my desk, i was about to text her right away !
But i decided to wait...It's been now 2 hours since i text her "hey cutie ! i finally have the chance to see you with your glasses ! sexy..." ! NO REPLY SO FAR !!! man !!!
i am facing one of my biggest failure, when it was my best success....
Please my friends PUA's give me the keys to reconquer this HB. Texting game should be the best way for me, considering the situation.
Many thanks guyz!