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You do not want to be in the "deadzone" i mean "friendzone", usually is the nice way of a girl saying "i do not like you like that, sexually/dating/bf" ljbf, is the last thing you ever want to hear, it usually happens because of the guy lack of skills, lack of escalation,afc status, the girl is not or lost attraction for the dude, dinner and a movie type of shit... What the ghetto dude described is gold...He is missing taking a break and come back a different dude...Also he is missing escalate on her sexually to see what happens... With that being said the bold stuff is gold too...
I respectfully disagree, out of personal experience I lost a lot of girls to the friend zone (FZ) but as I grew as a pua I realized that it was only because my game sucked. After I became enough of my man I made it a mission to seek out girls that once rejected me and go have sex with them, retarded I know but it was something I had to do at the time.
You would laugh if I told you how far I traveled for some of them.
I came to realize that FZ is only a problem if you are not man enough to woo a girl. Girls will tell you that they just want to be friends just to relieve tension, they do this when they are nervous, and let me elaborate on why.
Girls get really nervous when guys hit on them, they don't really know how to handle it, so a lot of the time it is easier for them to just turn you down in order to disarm the situation and thereby not having to deal with it.
The way to deal with this is to turn them down first, if you feel the girl is about to put you in the FZ, you put her there first, make sure that she knows there is no way she is going to get anything out of you, (unless she pays
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Most guys seem to think that the FZ is a problem, but try to use the fact that she now trusts you. You can take her out on dates and she won't even know it, you can be the most charming guy in the world, and yes, do charm other women in front of her but always make her feel special. You will win her eventually if you got enough game, trust me, the FZ is your friend!
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Slywalker
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