hi guys, i need help!!

here's my situation:

i have been able to pick up women pretty easily and generally know PUA techniques that work quite well.

that being said, i met a girl about 1.5 months ago that i became very connected to very quickly. since meeting her, i haven't wanted to date/hook up with anyone else (which is very out of character for me!!!)

we have been seeing each other about once a week for the past 3-4 weeks. i took her out on valentine's day, she invited me to a party at her house, etc. we have a great connection and great time together (and are sexually active).

she'll respond to my text messages immediately, but never seems to initiate the conversation. she'll always be up for hanging out when i recommend a certain day, but never initiates to meet up herself.

we text every couple days, if not every day, but it's always initiated by me. i know i should not text her, but because i have so much time right now since i'm not working, it feels like an eternity between talking to her.

I KNOW I SHOULDN'T HAVE, but I have told her how much i'm into her and that i haven't wanted to hook up with anyone else since meeting her. i also told her lots of compliments and i think she knows how into her i am. STUPID, I KNOW!!!

the thing is, we are at a point now in our dating relationship where i'm not sure if i should go back, back off, etc. because i don't want to sabotage what we built up this far. i don't think she's playing games, and feel if she feels that i am, she will. she's always excited to and AVAILABLE to hang out, and i fear if i start playing the game, then we won't hang out as much (like she won't take initiative to invite me, and she will also start not being as available following my lead).

i feel pathetic and this is very out of character for me. i've been with a lot of women, and usually am not like this, but she is really special and i'm afraid of screwing it up and losing her. don't know if to try to re-game her or if that's going to f-up the things, trust, rapport, that we've built up this far.

advice? please!

thx!

Okay. Are you two dating or not...

You said you were and then you hinted around that you are not...

If you are with her, what are wanting to learn or do?

If you are not with her, and you already have trust and all that shit built up,
then what are you asking?

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I think they've been seeing eachother but he wants to be exclusive.

Well here's what it sounds like to me...

With the pick-up arts, we learn how to play the games that women have been playing with us all our lives but now we are using these games to our advantage. Every once in a while, you'll come across a girl that doesn't play games and is actually genuine and real with you. These girls are rare and it sounds like you might have found one.

And you're right. If you start playing games with her, she will probably get defensive and return those games because the entire point is to get past the games. if you're already past them, there's no need to play.

I think you should stay away from the mind games. that doesn't mean to kiss her ass tho. throw a little C/F in there every once in a while.

She may not be calling you but that fact that she keeps accepting your invitations means she's into you cause she could be doing other shit. Most girls that don't play games expect the man to be the pursuer so just keep on pursuing her if you think she's worth it.

In my opinion, keep seeing this girl and if you think you both have a good connection, ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. Good luck man!

thanks sheer con,

this is great advice! i think that some general C/F stuff would work and not push her away and not detriment what we have already built.

any good suggestions for PUAs about best C/F stuff?

and any other perspectives?

thanks - you guys are awesome!
-y:)

I like how you've been brainwashed by INDIRECT GAME so much that you think its somehow bad for your game if you show interest. Not.

Yeah chief's right fella, you CAN show interest but not ALL the time. I mean a little text like "thinking about you today" goes a LONG way.. it doesnt display needyness, and it's really thoughtful if its spontaneous and every now and again,

Now my advice to you and i've been in these situations before is to..

-Follow up on it. Are you interested? Yes? follow up. No? Leave it back off.

-Dont play mind games with a girl who isnt playing them games.

-Try and refrain from mentioning how you feel about her all the time and displaying your feelings so often. Just demonstrate it. By that i mean rather than telling her you love her all the time just take her hand when your walking together, talk about how many kids your going to have together, what your going to call them, how your going to run away together, have a dog, big house. Women LOVE this!

-If she starts to become more 'friendly' in a friend way to you, you need to start going out and seeing more women, dont tell her, let her see or she will know by the way you act.

-If she starts to reject your invitations to going out or flake at the last minuet, then back off, let her come to you, as she will do. She'll text you if you dont speak to her for a week or two trust me.

I've been there with a girl like this, admitdly she was a complete head fuck, and not genuine like the sound of your mrs. But I learnt the hard way and if I can stop every man out there feeling the way I did that I would. Lol..

Anyways, post back if you need to talk about anything more