Hi there

BACK STORY:

I approached a girl in a bar and she said she really thought i was cool and threw her number at me. We talked for hours and hours and had somewhat of a deep connection

I text her next day this:

me: I wanna do naughty things to you

(I was going to say, steal some lemonade together or something like that)

her- Weirdo

I don't get it, I consider myself a natural but how can a girl be really into me and then respond like that.

Experienced advice only. Thanks guys.

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"I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." - Ryan Gosling

Fuck sake

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Wonderful advice. Thanks a lot.

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"I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." - Ryan Gosling

I find it annoying when people can come onto a free forum and demand only "experienced" advice. Especially people who have little or no clue what they're doing.

Lose the entitlement attitude.

This guy is experienced. The message implies that he disagrees with what you did, does it not? So the advice is to clearly try a new approach

You basically came across as one of those guys who doesn't have the guts to be direct in person, but isn't scared to say anything over text. Just like, you know, every other clueless guy on the planet.

Wanna know what works best? Do the EXACT opposite. I don't even talk about sex over texts with girls, unless they bring it up, and even then I'll usually say something like "Really? You didn't strike me as the sexual type, I thought you'd be quite plain with stuff like that" (which then makes her want to prove you wrong, and turns her into a freak) avoid getting sexual (or even hinting it with your lemonade story) over texts. In person though, 2 steps forward and 1 step back will always be the best way. In person, I'm VERY direct when I'm really feeling it. I've literally dragged a girl away from a club to fuck her before we even said a word lol (she did just randomly grab my cock and then start grinding on me, so I knew it was on, but still..)

TLDR; avoid being sexual over texts, don't be afraid to be sexual in person.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

That was a totally wrong move bro. You would never open a new number you just got with that text. I know you meant it as a joke but you didn't think it through. What would it appear to be when she reads it? She doesn't know you're playing or if you have a following up.

The other advice is also on the spot. I found that not mentioning sex at all works out really well ( doesn't mean you can't do it indirectly or let her mind fill in the gaps or sexual innuendos). There was this one chick a while back that I gamed, I didn't mention about sex at all our whole conversation. Only about being naked at the beach and doing naked yoga, then she shared that sometimes she suntans without her tops. Next thing I knew, we fucked at this creek on our picnic first date. She said she kept thinking about us having sex since we talked about how free it feels to be naked in public and that was it.

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"I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." - Ryan Gosling

Too sexual too fast.

In what ways was this connection sexual?
Because it sounds to me, like you got yourself a buddy. And much like your buddy Greg, this girl isn't going to be so keen on your suddenly whipping your cock out and suggesting head.

Regardless, many girls you meet at night, never want to see you again. And if she wanted to hook up, you'd have more than "a deep connection". At a bare minimum you'd have some sexual, physical contact.

If you meet a girl in a bar and you don't even so much as kiss her that night, I think the odds of you ever sleeping with her is well below %10. Doesn't matter what text you send her.

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Okay, okay ya fucked up the opener. But you had a backup plan, then she called you a weirdo, and you froze...

Fuck ups happen. Adapt.. bob, weave, roll - Running away crying is frowned upon.

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