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imsleepy
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 Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 9:34 pm Post subject: Trying to get the number |
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Alright everyone, Im getting so mad at myself recently because for the past month now there has been this girl in my class that i really like,(highschool). I mean i really like this girl for what she is and would really like to go out with her. She seems to be intrested in me and obviously im into her. I have easily gottin numbers before but ever time I think is a right time to ask her(i guess i just dont do it) I really want a way to get a number from her, please give me a suggestion. Im turning desperate 
and this is the first girl i think i have liked more than just for looks she is attractive and, i dont know, its just driving me crazy |
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skittlepimp
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:37 pm Post subject: |
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your setting your self up for dissapointment by idolizing this girl, sounds like youve got whats called oneitis.
there is no right time to ask, dont wait for it cause it will never come, have you talked to this chick before? does she know you? if so how well?
write me back and ill see what i can do |
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Numen
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| um dude.. you just answered it yourself, you haven't asked her yet.. you're either intimidated or afraid what will happen if she doesn't give it to you.. balls up man and just go ask her |
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Roads
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I would advise you go and hit on a few other girls first to get the anxiety out of your system. Knowing that you have other options does wonders for your confidence. Plus, if you get shot down in the test flights, you'll see it's no big deal, and that will help you tremendously in your mind when you ask her. By the way, do NOT make asking her out a big deal.
In fact, ask out 8 girls, 7 of whom you don't care about or are complete strangers. Put her at say #5.
Sounds hard? Sounds crazy? Try it. You'll be amazed. |
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The Wild One
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We've all been their man. I'd say 90% of the guys in this forum have at one time been in a similar situation in their afc days. You need perspective in this situation. I want to know what makes this girl so special? Has she done anything for you helped you out? If she is interested how has she shown that she is into you?
First off getting the number shouldn't be hard. You need to know girls get numbers every day. If she is good looking then she gets approached at least 10 times a day. So you need to separate yourself from the rest of the pack. How you do this will determine weather or not she deems seeing you again a worth wild investment. So PM me and I will set you up a routine based on your schedule and when you see her to make a good approach. Also realize buddy their are allot of woman out their and this one isn't special. |
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