Gambler and many other PUA's are famous for this move. Here's what you do! I've did this without realizing it along time ago. Here's the story first:

I was at a high school dance with my friend John. He was searching for some chicks to dance with but got shot down by every one of him. John wasn't that ugly but lacked in confidence. He was tall, heavy set, marine hair cut but a funny personality.

However, I quickly learned that asking if you can dance with a girl, just doesn't seem to work. "Would you like to dance?" Seems like it's a formal dance or some damn ball room dance like we're gonna do the Waltz or something. LOL! Anywyas, I came up with a new plan I went up to every chick and successfully danced with every chick in that place I could dance with. Instead of being a AFC I would I guess still be a AFC but it sounded much better than the other version. "Would I be out of your ledgue to dnace with you?" Putting them on the pedistal. I don't know how in the hell this worked but it worked everytime I asked the HB's.

So I was walking going to meet up with my friend and bam! This HB stopped in front of me and we started grinding. Pretty soon there were alot of chicks about 4 grinding with me. My friend almost shit in his pants when he saw that. He told me one HB was spanking my ass or pretending to be. That was the greatest fucking night ever and plus it increase my confidence.

So anyway the tactic works like this. Open a few sets and banter talk with them a bit. Get familiar with them then eject. If you have a wing then invite him to come over and introduced him to them. Maybe DHV alittle bit to do story telling but establish some kinda value then eject.

Do this to the whole entire place. By doing this OPEN & EJECT tactic, you'll be more easily to open set's left and right-plus the HB's will give you IOI's like crazy. Maybe once on the dance floor with one of them, they could just pile onto you since women don't like other women chasing after the same guy-there will be some heighten competion in the air.

Thanks for reading and tell me what you think? Peace out!

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I like it. I'll give it a try sometime.

Asking "Would i be out of your league?" Sounds SOOOOOOOO AFC.

But heck, if it works ill do it too. Wondering the theory why this works?

~kino

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Hey Stealth. Like we talked about last night, it doesn't matter what you say/do, as long as you have the right enthusiasm and energy you will get compliance in your sets and it will create the snowball effect of social proof and attraction like you mentioned in your post.

It's good to hear from your experiences in the field. Personally, I need to work on my staying power in conversations, as long and drawn out ones tend to lower my energy and lose me the set. As such, I try to stay in sets longer to build up my conversational muscles if you will, and resist the urge to eject after the initial attraction.

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I think because they interpret it as meaning you are too hot for them to dance with you.

You're right, along with the "putting the girl on the pedestool". Way, way off base on that. I believe this one worked because it was high school. THAT would never work post high school, unless the girl still had that mentality, which is not likely.

It's the complete opposite mindset of what we need to have though. We'd be kissing every girl's butts for the rest of our lives, not ever getting anywhere with them if we carried this mindset around all the time. Our value would be so low in their eyes they wouldn't be attracted to us.

I agree, depending on the delivery, I don't think it would be taken as AFC.

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