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bltjosh PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 6:26 am Post subject: tellin a girl she should go to the gym |
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this might sound funny, but,
theres this girl im already hittin thats put on a few pounds on the waist this school year... dropped from a HB8.5 to a HB8.0
lol, is there a real way to tell a girl she should hit the gym, or is a NO GO ever?
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zomgpp PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 7:03 am Post subject: |
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| maybe get her a pair of panties you think she would look sexy in but a size too small. |
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 7:04 am Post subject: |
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| girls tend to get really butt hurt when u tell em to go to gym cause ur basically calling them fat but if it was me. Lets say im already going to the gym you can probly say something like hey you know what would be cool sign up to gym with me you can be my workout buddy.. or some shit like that. Thats what i would do but hey im not the best gamer yet.... or actually i just thought of another thing. Show her pics of girls with great bodies shell start geting motivated to hit the gym thats usualy how i am when people show me pictures of dudes with the body i want for myself i get so phsycd up i cant wait to get to gym the next day..... |
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bltjosh PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 5:30 am Post subject: |
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| hmm. interesting. i might ask her to go to the gym w. me |
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Ka PUA Forum Leader
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Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 5:53 am Post subject: |
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AFC buddy mentioned to me hes with a chick who isa little sub-par shape wise but is an awsome person. He'd like them to get in better shape but doesnt know how.
I said offer to goto the gym together. Women are super sensitive (in most cases) to thier bodies, meanign they know if they have changed or are large.
Otherwise ask if shes ever considered going to the gym with a girlfriend of hers.
Also you can take the aproach of using a DHV story related to you takeing control of your health and then simply say to her that health is a very important atribute you look for in a partner...she might get the hint.
Hope this helps. |
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Roads PUA Forum Leader
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Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 3:48 pm Post subject: Re: tellin a girl she should go to the gym |
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| bltjosh wrote: | this might sound funny, but,
theres this girl im already hittin thats put on a few pounds on the waist this school year... dropped from a HB8.5 to a HB8.0
lol, is there a real way to tell a girl she should hit the gym, or is a NO GO ever?
thnx |
No. Never. Negative. Not in a million years.
If she's your girlfriend, fine, use the tactics Ka mentioned. If you're sarging her, leave her weight OUT of the conversation at ALL costs. You may be able to get away with telling a HB8 or 9 that she needs to eat MORE, but never ever hint that she should stopping pigging out at the BBQ joint down the street. |
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hunter PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 4:31 am Post subject: |
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lol this happened with my gf. If you have enough comfort and stuff with her, just take her with you to the gym whenever you go.
This didn't help my gf lose weight though  |
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The Wild One PUA Forum Leader
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Posted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 4:45 am Post subject: |
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| You can ask in a funny way to get her to go. Anything indirect that doesn't make her feel fat or ugly. If you do make her feel that way then you're opening a can of worms. Trust me you need to do this with surgical precision one step the wrong way and you'll piss her off. |
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SoCalFamous PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 6:30 am Post subject: Yeah |
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| If this were me, the next time I see her I would be motivated to an extent where she can easily notice. She will want to know what Im all hyped up about. I'll tell her that I want to take care of myself. I'll say some female model (or some famous chick with a great body) was talking about health and all of it's BENEFITS. Now is when your chick is going to start thinking... she's going to listen to what the "female model" said. She will be motivated herself, not by you, but by what the model said. Because she will know if she has picked up a few pounds in the past months (cuz women aren't dumb), and she'll want to lose it. This would be the perfect time to INVITE her to the gym, cuz it would be "really fun to have her there with you" as you improve your life. |
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PrettyBoy41 Dedicated Member
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| i suggest againts it. i know you want to, but its so easy for things to be taken incorrectly, and you dont want to be a dick. id let it go. |
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bltjosh PUA Forum Enthusiast
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| word. ill see what happens. i think its all the beer pong. haha |
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Rye Lee Moderator My post count is my POWER LEVEL!!!
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| Your best bet is physical activities that you can do together. |
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bltjosh PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 10:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Rye Lee wrote: | | Your best bet is physical activities that you can do together. |
haha. those kind of activities. i guess ill have to help her burn it off |
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gyarados Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 10:46 pm Post subject: |
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| as long as she aint fat, its sexy to have a little, Just have sex everyday and she should be fine |
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GRKiller Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 3:02 am Post subject: Re: tellin a girl she should go to the gym |
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| bltjosh wrote: | this might sound funny, but,
theres this girl im already hittin thats put on a few pounds on the waist this school year... dropped from a HB8.5 to a HB8.0
lol, is there a real way to tell a girl she should hit the gym, or is a NO GO ever?
thnx |
LOL! No! No! No! Thats a sure way to get slapped. Lol, there is not a good way to tell a girl she should lose weight. One exception would be if you are the type that works out (running, weights, etc..) , then you could invite her to come along. This still is very risky.
BTW, the title almost made me cry with laughter. Hillarious!! |
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