I call B.S. You guys take N2's advice to medidate and communicate better and understand yourself and pervert it so you can continue to COPE with these unhappy relationships.
You should never say this about your gf:
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So here is a request I've formulated but I need help with wording it. She had a girlfriend, a new one, that seems to take priority over me quite a bit. The girlfriend and her text a lot and she always says she misses her and is very kind worded. I want to be treated more like her tried because I feel that the affection I lack is found in this relationship.
But no...yall will watch some videos and pull out of it "well, even though it FEELS like she makes her gf a priority and not me, she shows me in other ways I'm a priority." Ask yourself, "what other ways?" "Oh...she shows me in some ways I dont see or understand."
What is this girl doing for you NOW
What is she showing you NOW
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Honestly I believe by certain actions that she "loves" me, but maybe it's just not the definition of love that I need
If you gotta QUESTION WHETHER YOUR GF LOVES YOU, time to walk. Jeez, yall talk about these women like they're ZEUS or something and even though you cant see them love you, you gotta have faith.
Simple. Your gf talks to her new friend. She doesnt talk to you. That means she doesnt care about talking to you.
ITS NOT FUCKING DIFFICULT.
Is she talking to you in some other way? Is she communicating with you psychically?
If she's busy and finding time for a friend, then there is something wrong with your relationship. Its not your needs. Its none of that.
If you text your GF, and she doesnt respond but is on FB, well, she doesnt see talking to you as a priority. Now, you can talk to her and be sensitive, and let her give you some BS, but it's just that simple. The signs are there.
Both you and the B guy need to accept your relationships are dying. Sure, medidate and improve yourself, but to be calm with the thought of being alone...Not to forget that you're in unhappy relationships.
And guess what, the fact that both of you can not accept that your relationships are unhappy, the fact that both of you are seeking these "prizes" before your own needs and happiness, further dooms your relationships. Because guess what again, neither of your chicks cares enough to talk to you. They arent afraid of you leaving. Neither of them care if you leave, if they did, busy or not they'd act like it.
Both of you, ask your chicks for a break and see if they dont jump on it.