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PostPosted: Thu Sep 05, 2013 6:41 am 
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I'm gonna try to keep this concise.

Meet girl, hit it off, k-close(my first) and n-close, this was friday night.
text her tuesday, get like 8 messages in. She asks year, i respond and then ask for her major. No response.
Today is Thursday. What the hell? I dont know what happened. I made sure to never respond immediately and never did something dumb like "Pls Respond." Thought i was keeping the conversation light and easy going (For the short amount of time it took place)

The really annoying part is she said on friday that she didnt want me to be a stranger if we saw each other on campus. If she wants that, why the hell would she stop responding to me via text? I dont get it and need help


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 05, 2013 1:26 pm 
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Settle down, everything will be just fine. You just have a mild case of NRS.

No-response Syndrome It's common, and the good news, it will pass once you realize how silly it is.

No Response/Reply Syndrome is the condition some people get when the person whom they are chatting to online or texting does not respond for an extended period of time.

People with NRS will believe that the reason the person they are chatting to has not responded is because they were offended a statement the NRS-victim said.

It is most commonly cured by a response from the person that wasn't responding before.

Sometimes it can elevate to hole-digging, when the NRS-victim feels they've REALLY screwed up.

This hole-digging in turn can lead to more NRS. This cycle can eventually lead to dementia.

Look your just not a high priority in her world, your just a face and a number.
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get like 8 messages in. She asks year, i respond and then ask for her major. No response.
This banter is so exciting! Perhaps she fell asleep? Or had more pressingly urgent needs, like having to take a shit?

You could just sack up and call her, ask her to to hang out. Get a little more excitement going.

This may help: the-best-tease-routines-by-jay-wa-vt18584.html

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 05, 2013 2:01 pm 
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She flaked you. Move on with your life.

8 messages in a row is text suicide.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 05, 2013 5:12 pm 
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She flaked you. Move on with your life.

8 messages in a row is text suicide.
I meant 8 messages back and forth.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 05, 2013 5:16 pm 
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She flaked you. Move on with your life.
Ok edited.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 1:55 am 
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She flaked you. Move on with your life.

8 messages in a row is text suicide.
I meant 8 messages back and forth.

I hate when this happens. I've had week long back and forth texting withgirls where they have said stuff like "cant wait to hear from you tomorrow".. "text me tomorrow" etc ...and then we make a date to meetup or they just stop responding.
At first, I would get so frustrated..but now I am learning to move on. Maybe Im wrong on this, but I feel the best way to deal with it is just to move and forget about her. At most I might wait a week or so from the last text and say something like "Hey i was at *(insert place where you met her)*and remembered : )..hope all is well" as a hail mary pass, but if no response after that Ill just move on.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 5:06 am 
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Tips for texting game: Don't text, escalate it to a date, asap.

A tip in general for "questions" is to not ASK QUESTIONS. Instead my statements about the thing you would like answered; "I bet you are a psychology major.." She will correct you if you are wrong (you can do some CF here as to x, y & z on why you thought that) and she will be amazed if you got it right (still do some CF).

Again, move on, we all have wasted too much time with women and when we let our minds get to us, we fucking lose.

Wanna know how to fix his issue?! GET OUT AND GAME AND GET MORE WOMEN. If you have 10 women to talk to, and talk to them at the same time, you will almost forget about that 1 girl who hasn't responded in a while. Eventually you can go back and spark up the conversation (do not do "hey, sup, etc." as that is boring conversation, make it exciting).

Like that last point, make the conversation exciting if you wish to keep someone intrigued. Or, man up and give the girl a call and do some rapport over the phone and get a day2 going.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 5:09 am 
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she stop responding to me via text? I dont get it and need help
if this happened after your k-closed you are done, put a fork in it.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 5:24 am 
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I decided you guys are right. I'm not doing that "Pls Respond" game ever again. She doesn't wanna text me?

Her loss.

Already deleted her number from my phone.

I'm in college. It's not like there aren't any other attractive girls here.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 5:30 am 
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I decided you guys are right. I'm not doing that "Pls Respond" game ever again. She doesn't wanna text me?

Her loss.

Already deleted her number from my phone.

I'm in college. It's not like there aren't any other attractive girls here.
Well dude.. I wouldn't of gone that far. I always keep girls numbers, why? Because you can ALWAYS revive something as long as you haven't left on a horrid note.

I have seen FR's of guys talking about starting conversations with girls they haven't talked to in months.

Also, you could of always did the asshole move (saw this somewhere) where a guy basically bitched her out, and got a positive response, each time. This usually only works with the stuck-up bitches, but might work here too. If you truly wanted, you could of went ahead and said "look im not playing no hs games anymore and dealing with bullshit like this, so have fun with those lame ass guys and delete my number now"

I even did some of that today, and they all responded, in a bit different ways but none that was so negative.

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