Gentlemen,

here's the deal: Virtually every girl I've slept with also fell in love with me. I really, really hate this.

I'm a 35 y/o PUA apprentice. Frankly, I find no problems at all attracting female attention. Refined attitude and style, athlethic physique, plus M.S. in nuclear physics all combined are usually more than enough. Next, and this one takes the cake - I love dancing - and consider myself pretty good at it. Salsa, bachata, disco-fox, you name it.

This all inevitably leads girls/women etc. falling in love with me after (and even before) we get some action. I hate this so much that I've happened to turn more than a couple of angels down before getting kinky with them only to avoid hurting them afterwards.

Since I'm currently not looking for any serious relationship (and also don't wanna live like an eunuch), conclusion is obvious: I only want them to want to get laid with me, nothing more! I want to be the ultimate bad guy for them.

But how, I beg, how?!

What the fuck is your problem? You're getting laid and you're complaining? How big is your pussy, honestly? Fuck outta here.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

I'm guessing from your venom that you AREN'T getting laid. Pick fight at the bar like you normally do instead of here.

My suggestion is to not be as awesome. You seem like a total package (no homo) and obviously,if you don't have many social weaknesses, birds are gonna fall HARD. Maybe neg more, it's hard to say women have such fluttery, unpredictable personalities, not to mention the clingyness if they get attached.

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"Cleaning, baking, hot love-making. That's what girls are for."
-Michael Starr

You're not going to be able to go up to a girl and say "Hey, don't fall in love with me" and keep her from doing so. You can however set some ground rules for the relationship.

One of the mods (Chief) did a post on managing expectations, check it out:

http://chiefpua.blogspot.com/2011/01/ma ... r-fwb.html

Although it says its for friends with benefits and I think you want more of a strictly sexual relationship, the key takeaway is to be honest about your intentions so the girl can walk away without being led on.

Bro do you even lift?

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

Bro, not cool.

As for the topic, if you want to put on the bad boy look, one thing to do is let beard out a little bit and wear a baseball hat with the stickers still on it. Sounds cliche, but seriously, Hunnies love scruffy guys in hats with maybe a tat or two. Show her you're in charge.

I have to agree with this. So many haters towards that so-called "douche" wardrobe, I found so many Sheilas regard glossy graphic tees as badass. The kind that can reflect inordinate light off their logos. And say what you want about Affliction, it works. They know you're not into wimpy shit when you know your swag.

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"Cleaning, baking, hot love-making. That's what girls are for."
-Michael Starr

I know right? Swag is the name of the game. Carrying a travel size Axe can around doesn't hurt either.

Dawg just make it clear you on that bachelor tip. If you make it clear you only in it for the one night den day fall that's on them. Also I don't know about you but I always found that a chick can't catch you up to bad if yiu hook up at her place and don't exchange info. If you want to be a bad boy just be a bad boy fool.

There's something about wearing sunglasses all the time that scream "bad boy mystique".

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"Cleaning, baking, hot love-making. That's what girls are for."
-Michael Starr

You're a nuclear physicist, not a dumbass. Don't be wearing a baseball cap and don't have little bitch scruff.

Either way, just be straight up. You're a grown man- you should be talking about expectations at least at some point. Somewhere in your conversation mention that you're looking to just have fun, just be nonchalant about it.

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A morning of awkwardness is far better than a night of loneliness.

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This.

I have been called a heartbreaker because of my bad boy tendencies and I figure the girl will have to get over it. I just completely destroyed this girls expectations the other night because we were breaking the rules and getting too relationshipy that past few weeks.

Just has to be done my friend.

Mr. A

P.S. Props on the good lifestyle

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