Well then. First of all my apologies for the grammar mistakes in this and all future posts.

I am a 29 years old living in Holland and although I had already heard of PUA in 2005 I'm pretty new
to this stuff. Might be because I never really had issues to get women. Remember an online friend of mine was into it because of a lack of social skills at that time, and every time after he had been out sarging I was like 'Okay cool 20 openers but, did you get a phuck? Kiss maybe? No, so what's that bullshit PUA'.

To tell a bit about my background, might come in handy for later questions: At young age I was really popular at school but due to several facts that changed and made me pretty introvert for at least 15 years. In fact I was intellectually gifted and pretty eager to connect with people, but as we all know fame has a downside which came up when some bullies couldn't get along with me, with the result that my self esteem dropped below zero, I kinda stopped being me and my social circle at that time was at best to be described as 'the best of the rest'. At 18 I started working out which got me some results pretty fast and got me my first girlfriend ever which ofcourse was the icing on the cake. After being insecure of myself for years at least now I had a decent body and I've managed to deal with my 'gifted-handicap' and got myself a pretty large social network again. A bunch of good friends who are not socially awkward. After that relationship ended I started going out every week and started online dating and found out I was pretty good at it and perhaps out of anger because that one girl dumped me I started toying around with others. Although I have to admit that 2/3 of the 25 f-closes in the following two years came from online dates.

As we speak I'm in LTR's since 2005 - 2010 with my former wife and 2010 - now with my current girl it's obvious that my sarging days are pretty much a thing of the past. However about a year and a half ago me and my girl broke up for a month or two and when we realized that was a major mistake we found out that we both needed some fun now and then and decided to continue in an open relationship. Not saying we phuck around every week but it certainly gives the opportunity to run some game from time to time, which is mostly enough to satisfy my hunger for female attention. Nevertheless as a result of that break up I started reading Mystery and while I instantly realized what when wrong and got her back within days (you know, the average stuff, be alpha and able to walk away make them realize what they want) I also developed a fascination for the human mind and with just a few little tweaks in my behavior and bodylanguage I instantly gained massive popularity on my new job. (50 co-workers, mostly 10-15 around) But ofcourse my ego isn't satisfied with that so now I'm in to experiment with PUA. I've always done things naturally, somehow when I meet a girl I can instantly tell if she's digging me or not and when I do HAVE contact with a girl I instinctively know what to do, which means that every girl I ever really really wanted, I've got.

Right now I want to learn to instantly go for a close. I.E. from start talking to a complete stranger to a close on the same evening without spending weeks of push and pull with them. In my opinion this is essential in my situation as they're likely to get buyers remorse when they realize that I'm not really that available. Which is why I registred here. In particular I need advice in a pretty complicated situation I got myself into, in fact reading here kinda ruined my natural game. You can find that situation here:

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Thanks for reading, hope you all enjoyed the ride.