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Mister_GQ
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 Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 6:52 am Post subject: My friend is sooo AFC it pisses me off! |
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so i have this friend through a car club, and we talk about all things including cars, so i told him about the PUA stuff ive been reading, and hes like thats bs if its meant to happen it will happen. so hes been taking this girl out that he likes, and she said she likes him, he told her first tho...i know how gay...anyways, he asked her out vday and she said i want to remain single, hes been awake since monday sulking about it, and it pisses me off. i want to tell him seriously check out the game, but hes gonna be like thats lame......i guess this is just a rant but check this aim convo out.
[00:46] Mister GQ: u still awake form last ngiht?
[00:46] AFC friend: ya
[00:47] Mister GQ: damn
[00:47] Mister GQ: have u kissed her?
[00:47] AFC friend: no
[00:47] Mister GQ: hmm
[00:47] Mister GQ: y not?
[00:49] Mister GQ: any reason?
[00:49] AFC friend: dunno
[00:59] Mister GQ: i think that if u can kiss her, ull hold alot more power in the relationship and be able to direct it where u want
[01:44] AFC friend: sorry, I was busy earlier
[01:44] AFC friend: but we kinda talked a bit last night, not about any of this, but just like random car stuff
[01:44] AFC friend: and she sounded really upset
[01:44] AFC friend: she called me btw, I didn't call her
[01:44] AFC friend: and I asked her what was up and she said "nothing...I'm just thinking"
[01:45] AFC friend: and we talked some more and I said "you're really ordering a lot of stuff for your car"
[01:45] AFC friend: and she said "I'm depressed"
[01:45] AFC friend: and I just kinda left it there
[01:45] AFC friend: then tonight she calls me after she gets out of her exam, and says "hey, do you still want to go Thursday?"
[01:45] AFC friend: and I said "well yeah, I'll go if you wanna go"
[01:45] AFC friend: and she says "well, I don't want to be the only one who wants to go, do you want to?"
[01:45] AFC friend: and I said "sure"
[01:45] AFC friend: so we ARE going out Valentines night
[01:45] Mister GQ: good
[01:46] Mister GQ: but are u sure its not a pity thing?
[01:46] AFC friend: all this after I told her that I geniunely care about her and that I'd do anything for her
[01:46] AFC friend: lol, I think it is
[01:46] Mister GQ: damn
[01:46] Mister GQ: not fun
[01:46] AFC friend: who knows
[01:46] AFC friend: she sounded geniunely upset
[01:47] Mister GQ: true
[01:47] Mister GQ: well see how it goes
[01:47] Mister GQ: pity sux bad tho
that screams AFC in every way! there is more convo but its not necessary to post. i dont understand why some guys wont accept that we all arent born with game! |
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Roads
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 8:22 pm Post subject: |
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| Dude, respect his AFCness and let him be. Not everyone understands pickup, and some are more resistant to change than others. Sort of like Democrats and Republicans. When he comes to his senses, he will ask you how you are so successful with girls. Then you can introduce him to PUA, again, properly. |
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*olie*
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:13 pm Post subject: |
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| damn i reconise so much of that from what i used to be like, yeah i want to tell you let him be but i think he should really give this stuff a try so i dunno try and get him into it but dont force him |
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minijag
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:31 pm Post subject: |
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| lmao, this is just so funny because his AFCness is actually pissing you off. Good stuff, ya I'm sure he'll come around though. |
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Jay Wa
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:53 pm Post subject: |
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When I read through this conversation, I somehow reasoned that she was seeing someone else. . .perhaps that's the root of the problem.
And I can feel ya on this one. I have some AFC friends; Everytime we go out, they say, "You're gorgeous, nice shoes." . . .you know, shit like that. |
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Crasher
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leave it up to an stubborn AFC to call pickup bs
first thing you should do is go out clubbing with him pick up a few girls while he probably gets none then say "I told you so" 
wow she is only going with him because she has no other date after their little date shell probably run off with the next guy she sees
give him a few pointers tell him theyll work if he uses them right |
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Papi Lindo
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 4:52 am Post subject: |
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The worst problem with AFC friends is that they have a keen tendency to attack the obstacle and berate them with the boring nonsense. This of course frustrates the key to the door, which is your target, and destroys the open set you've just established. If you manage to diplomatically avoid such a fate, you are left with an AFC amongst the group who is generally quiet leave you to give reason to their morbid presencen.
In essence, you have to maintain the DHV you have built while maintaining his DHV as well. It just sucks. |
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