how to deal with "you are too arrogant"

SKY007

this happens to me all the time "you are too arrogant"

lets say i have a set of 2 super hot chicks eating out of my hand, they are even smelling my neck and chest from close, to guess my perfume, touching me and stuff, etc.. so i am on a roll

its a shit test, so i say: "hey i should get paid for this" or "heyyyy hands-off the merchandise"

they always say "you are arrogant, we/i dont like arrogant men"

i answer something like "if you dont like me then why are you touching and smelling me all over, or you do this to all men that you dont like?" etc.... (

thing is, whatever i answer the "arrogant" thing seems to really keep them bothered. am i too cocky? is there a way to be cool but not too cocky. i seem to get stuck here.

Marco Polo · Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 2:35 pm Post subject:

Yep, I also sometimes overneg and when they seem to feel less worthy or sad, I say something like: "I am very emotional person and this is my diffence of getting hurt by ladies". But I always say it in a way they can`t figure out am I serious or this is just another insult for their brains. They hate when they can`t read you and thats whats keep you attractive.

FreeLife · Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 5:34 pm Post subject:

Add more playfulness to your tone of voice so that they know that you are kidding. If they say "you are too arrogant" and it is a shit test however then you simply make a joke of it to demonstrate that you are emotionally unaffected by them.

The Nature Boy · Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 7:41 pm Post subject:

Depending on how far you are into the set, and what the HB rates, I 've found that twisting it works very well.

HB: "Wow, you're arrogant...*rolls eyes*."
You: "There's more to me than just rediculously good looks, not to quote zoolander or anything *saying it very playfully with a smile* (changes the tone of the convo, shows some vulnerability...can take it two ways)

1. You: I put up walls to prevent blah blah blah etc. (serious)

2. You: You have seen Zoolander right?! *has to be playful* (funny)
If yes: go into something rediculous/funny about the movie (good segway between you being arrogant to cocky/funny, tones down arrogance well)
If no: neg her PLAYFULLY, "omg does she ever get out?"

These knock the tone from cocky (arrogance) to cocky/funny or to serious in which they see you have an intellectual side (DHV)...

SKY007 · Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 8:48 pm Post subject:

thanks guys!

but what can i do to prevent arrogance in the first place?
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after girl(s) touching/smelling me...
I should NOT say "i should get paid for this / hands-off the merchandise"
instead I should say something like: "are you always this fast with strangers?"
anybody has even better stuff that avoids arrogance while passing girl-touching-you shit tests ?

saqchek · Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 11:44 pm Post subject:

Cocky = good

Arrogant = bad

I get "You are cocky!" all the time from girls, and I generally respond with "But you like it though" to which they always reply yes.

Being "too" cocky isn't good either.

Sixx (aka sixstringplaya) · Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 3:22 am Post subject:

quit over negging. its as simple as that.

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