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a-dubs
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 Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2007 9:49 pm Post subject: hb9 with a long distance boyfriend |
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so i'm in a fraternity in college and this girl comes around and i think i have a fair chance at her. She has a boyfriend but they're far away from each other so i don't think it really matters, plus she's gorgeous and probably realizes she can do better than him; that's where i come in. So first of all i'm curious how people interpret my chances and then also how i should proceed.
Ok so all of the IOIs started one night where i just negged her over and over. i told her the glasses she was wearing made her look like either a librarian or a lesbian. I've been pretty cocky and throwing out a lot of negs at her but always being friendly.
She likes to tell me i don't match, because normally when she sees me it's when i'm dressed comfortably. I usually respond with "You just want me out of my clothes don't you." "Could you stop staring me down." "Maybe i'll give you a picture to put in the shrine you have dedicated to me" Things like that.
She always comes and hugs me and on one occassion i was playing around with her and she said "you know i love you dustin." which i think is pretty positive. i wasn't prepared with anything clever to say to that. I said something like "fine then show me a ring."
How should i go about trying to close with this girl? Normally my style is just be sexual, verbally make fun of the target but have my body language say something completely different. I liked gunwitch and mystery method. I think my style is something that has aspects of both of those. Anyways do you guys have any ideas or questions that could help? |
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a-dubs
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 5:23 am Post subject: |
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| Start escalating kino. It should lead naturally to closing. |
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saqchek
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| Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 1:18 pm Post subject: |
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| Don't over do the "negs" and "cockiness". Eventually, you'll become an asshole to her. |
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Roads
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| Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 10:11 pm Post subject: |
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| Actually, if she's used to him playfully negging her, stopping all of a sudden would be bad. Sounds like this girl is already jumping into his arms. I'd say just run the Discovery Channel pattern on her and see what happens. |
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