Hey,
So about 3-4 years ago I started to get into the PUA lifestyle and have learned a lot. It had changed my life in many ways and I was able to pick up chicks left and right. After I ended a 2 year relationship about a little more than a year ago, I've been having the most difficult time getting back into what I was doing before the relationship. I still remember and use everything I learned but it isn't going the way it use to. It seems I have a more difficult time now then ever before. I have a feeling a bout what might have killed my vibe and try to ignore it, but can't get back in it the way I use to. I'm only 26 year, I'm doing very well with my career and travel all the time. What is wrong and how do I fix it?? Let me know if anyone can help???

Hey man, this is a common theme I've seen a lot from guys who get into LTR after learning the game. These guys get comfortable and complacent and don't go out as often anymore and be social to keep their skills sharp. Even if you aren't in an open relationship, you can still be social, break rapport, and "flirt" with other girls without escalating or cheating to keep you on top of your game. If you don't practice, then you will get rusty and may have to start from scratch sometimes. It's like going to the gym for a couple years and getting into top shape, then you slack off and don't workout for another couple years. You won't be able to lift as much as you used to so you have to build yourself back up. It's the same in pickup. Accept that you can't game and pickup chicks like you used to and just start approaching a lot more and keep practicing your game. Get that growth and curiosity mindset back and get excited to get back into the game to review everything and stat learning new things.

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Happened to me when I got out of my relationship. Just keep trucking through that feeling. Sometimes the saying "if you don't use it you lose it" is true.

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You're fresh out of a relationship.

While in a relationship women find you more attractive, because not only are you "taken", but you're also absorbing female energy on a daily basis and women can sniff that out the same way a dog knows if a spot has been pee'd on. Its the restaurant affect. One restaurant has a line all the way around the block, the other is empty. Which do you want to go into? Most would rather wait the hour for the "Line" even if they don't know what the food taste like, than get food immediately from a place no one is inside of.

You just have to get back out there interacting. You're at square one.. You'll be fine in about two weeks of active approaching.

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you guys definitely open up the book when it comes to this, appreciate everything that was said! Will definitely be able to get back to it this weekend. If there is anything else that can be offered as far as some awesome icebreakers or any good openers, would be greatly appreciated!!!

Hey man,

I don't hve anything solid to offer at the moment (as I am currently in a relationship myself and I have decided I don't want to be dishing out advice on here without me actually being in the field), but what I can tell you is that about one year ago, I was in exactly the same situation as you, and... It will come back quicker than you think. Just hold on, continue practising and lurking on here and you will be back on top sooner than you realize. Don't worry, you are undergoing a normal process and, as longas you stick to it, it will wind up with you coming out of the other end stronger than ever. So don't doubt yourself.

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Thanks for the honestly and motivation brother!