And who can say - all depends on the way the river of life flows...

When a girl says something you don't like, just don't reply. Let her reinitiate. If the conversation was solid prior they often will. They'll start to question whether or not they said something stupid and send you another message to make sure they still have a shot. Don't bail her out, let her come to you.

" I HAVE A GOD DAMN BOYFRIEND

She wanted to see where the date would go without feeling like a "slut" I presume. You made her feel uncomfortable with your text. Your text is OK but it had more to do with the lady than you, see? There was a better way to handle this. Alternatively, not sure what kind of women you screen for. Perhaps you like affairs, but moving right along;
I would just like to remind you that "in-action" is still action. What does doing this hope to achieve? I get the idea but I worry that people err on the side of misapplied "freeze-outs" already. Lack of participation in "BS" is a fine decision to make when appropriate, as you insinuate. But sometimes (and a lot of the time) a good conversation or sentence at the right time can make all the difference, too. Let's not forget that, please. Because we always do.

"Friday is good......And if you behave really well or look super good, I may even buy you that hot chocolate! "

She replied:

"OK
"I dont like hot chocolate"

How do I handle it?

" I HAVE A GOD DAMN BOYFRIEND

She wanted to see where the date would go without feeling like a "slut" I presume. You made her feel uncomfortable with your text. Your text is OK but it had more to do with the lady than you, see? There was a better way to handle this. Alternatively, not sure what kind of women you screen for. Perhaps you like affairs, but moving right along;
I would just like to remind you that "in-action" is still action. What does doing this hope to achieve? I get the idea but I worry that people err on the side of misapplied "freeze-outs" already. Lack of participation in "BS" is a fine decision to make when appropriate, as you insinuate. But sometimes (and a lot of the time) a good conversation or sentence at the right time can make all the difference, too. Let's not forget that, please. Because we always do.

BE NORMAL

her- 'I don't like hot chocolate'
you- 'We will figure something out, let's meet at x place at x time'

So Alex, Mr one post. Now that you got some advice. Will you be contributing to the forum or will you disappear now that you got your answer?

How did I misread that? Oops. I didn't notice that you wrote that actually, RC. I still think the OP can benefit from the post if it is a re-iteration, anyway.