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I don't think she's trash. I adore her.
If I didn't care, I wouldn't post this. I just don't care for this type of behavior. It happens rarely with her.
She's extremely attractive and would blow your mind in bed...enthusiastic beyond belief. Therefore, she's someone you have to play your cards right with until she's hooked.
Young women at this level can have who they want, when they want, and they cut guys loose without a hint of remorse.
Play the game or date ugly girls.
See, statements like the last one are rooted in scarcity and failure to look at yourself and see where you're lacking. Been to, and lived in many cities in the U.S and countries in the world; its just a plain falsehood that to be with hot women, you require all these headgames and who's chasing who nonsense. I get where it comes from;
its easier to find girls who need alot of validation and game playing to keep their interest ; its harder to look at what girls you get and accept that you need to increase your internal value and mindset. Just like the girl who accepts men who will hit them will think, well getting beaten is just part of the game.
I even get the whole emphasis on who is chasing who; its easier to have a woman who is blowing up your phone and going crazy for your ATTENTION due to X mind game you're playing, than one who is crazy for YOU. I dont agree with it though, because the walking that thin line game of she's crazy for you if you're cold and you cant show any emotion unless its planned just sounds like too much work for me. You're reading a girl's messages like the FBI hunting a serial killer, if tomorrow you gave her a compliment you may lose her completely. All sounds so stressful, and unecessary, all that work for a girl, because you think thats just what it takes. I don't doubt that your experiences have given you this view that it's all this extra shit needed, thats why i say you should look at why you can only find hot girls like this.
As you said, you have to play your cards right till she's hooked, but from your previous description, she'll never be completely hooked, and once you show emotion towards her...poof. Im not knocking you, I actually admire that persistance...I'm just too lazy. Checking a girls phone and stuff to see whats up....having to even think i couldnt express myself how I wanted to? Thats work. Lets be real, you'll be checking this girls phone again any chance you get to see where you stand with her.
PS-Lol you know her friend didnt show you a text message from her...you saw it on her phone.
Remember how you told me 9/10s will chew you up and spit you out. This girl is chewing. The moment you lose your flavor you are going to be spit out because you're playing a short term game that is built on creating negative emotions and her seeking validation. If that's your game, that's fine and more power to you. The problem is that you adore her and you can't express, so you have to be fake until you can get your hooks into her while another guy is doing the same thing. The only thing that you can do right now is be her booty call and miss the ESPN highlights.
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