Friend Zone

Gogo · Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 1:48 pm Post subject: Friend Zone

lol I was wonderin how many guys
here have put a girl in

the friend zone sounds kinda
backwards but i kno ive done it
atleast 3 times befor and

i was wonderin whos all done
the same thing

Bodhisattva · Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 12:17 pm Post subject:

I have but its never with attractive girls that are your friends, just the ones that i wouldn't want to hook up with.

Medic · Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 10:10 pm Post subject:

I've LJBF'd a HB9 recently. She is really cool, but I would hate to be anything more than friends with her because our personalities just don't jive in a way that would be good for anything more. It's good for me because she's fun to hang out with and she's hot, and we all know what it means when you enter a venue and you're already with a HB.

Rye Lee · Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:14 am Post subject:

Only girls I wasn't attracted to. I can remain friends with a girl if I have sex with her, so that doesn't stop me, it's just for fun and pleasure.

Muse · Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:43 am Post subject:

LJBF'd a former oneitis after I could have had her at a party. hehe.

Juice24 · Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 4:20 am Post subject:

Mine has been going on for a tragic 20yrs

chio · Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 5:56 pm Post subject:

Not yet. I will when I get better.

kodierer · Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 3:19 pm Post subject:

Fat/ugly girls, Yes. Or my friends long term exes. If I have a friend who has dated a girl for more than like 6 months, then I don't want to date that same girl. Thats just awkward.
If I have a hot female friend, I wouldn't LJBF them. I wouldn't be friends with them if I didn't like their personality, and if they are hot then I would be stupid to not want to date a girl with a good personality and a hot body. Plus I as well can be friends with my ex girlfriends.
I have all too many times wished girls thought the same way in that respect.

Roads · Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 8:40 pm Post subject:

Yes, I have done this a few times to girls.

I hope you guys were tactful, rejection hurts them just as much as it hurts us.

Whoopie · Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 10:29 pm Post subject:

I actually just a HB9 recently. She had just got out of a relationship that was 3 months shy of Marriage. We are very open with each other.

I even told her that we should hang out more often because I could use a wingwoman. Guess what she said, "I never been a wingwoman before but I bet I will do a better job than any wingman you have had" Very Happy

I was big smiles when I heard that. HBs have HB friends which I can just use them to enter Venues. I would never hook up with one of her HBs. I will hook up wings I bring with me but never cross that line.

I am in the process of turning my ex in a wingwoman. She likes the idea and there is no emotional connection between us anymore and she knows that. Which is great.

Ka · Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 12:37 am Post subject:

Every dude had LJBF'd a girl before...probably in a more sutle way then out right saying. This is due to the fact that guys are dense and usually we dont get the hint and have to be told..wereas a girl will know or be able to safely assume if you dunt like her "that way".

The best part about us doing this, is typically if a girl knows shes be LJBF'd, she will get a friend to SOI for her and see how you take it. For instance almost anytime you have had a friend, whos a girl, that you have no desire to be intamate with...and her friend suggests you should go out...thats her way of tossing out that SOI indirectly to make sure shes right that your not intrested.

I love responding to this with a shocked look and, "No way, shes like my sister itd just be creeepy/wierd/odd." If you get anymore arguements just step it up with, "Thatd be like you dateing your mother/brother/sister/cousin/father/uncle/aunt...etc." Then when they make the poop face (the face of disgust like they just smelt shit) you point it out and go, "see, you dunt think they are a bad person but your not attracted to them, same thing."

So in anycase yea we have all done that, any guy whos ever meet a fat/ugly chick who liked them and was too nice to tell them they didnt like them has LJBF'd. We just do it differently as guys.

that_guy · Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 4:08 am Post subject:

ive done it many many times, before, but i usually just stay away from them for a while till they get the hint, then it went back to normal, i think...

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Nicely put Ka.

Yep, I've done it that way, and I've straight out done it too, lol.

Whoopie · Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 8:12 am Post subject:

I prefer to go straight out and do it. I have done the whole sister route before too!

Just watch how you do it. I once told a girl LJBFs and it seem like my vaule tripled. She would always want to hang out with me and would do anything for me. Lets just say I got alot of massages and cooked meals. Until one day she saw me out in public with another chick showing alot of PDA.

Which I try my best to keep PDA from the public scene(Bars/Clubs/Partys are fine though) because it can have bad effect if someone who you have gamed sees you.

Ka · Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 10:17 pm Post subject:

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