In an aid for others to follow my steps, ill be posting my learning material and things i read, this should hopefully let people follow the same learning curve as me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9kOMn5kwII - Take this video with a pinch of salt, some things i don't totally agree with, however the principle he is trying to get across. The world is as you perceive it. Is an extremely good philosophy and one i follow closely.

Secondly, i've been reading the book: " The art natural of seduction" by Richard La Ruina. A pretty good book with some helpful advice, however i don't think he focuses on inner game enough. Nor do most of the books i've read so far. Which is a shame as i consider inner game the most important factor of them all....

Perhaps i should get a book on the go?

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Just researching on how to get into the best clubs. Because let's face it, the best looking girls go where the money is.
I just have to find a method or formula to get into these places, and cheaply!

Definitely worth a read:
http://uk.askmen.com/money/how_to_400/402_how_to.html - Will be trying this weekend for sure!

Adding my own thoughts to this... It wouldn't be a bad opener to a group of girls (the more the merrier). You could ask in a number of ways to get that group to go with you to the highest value club in the area. I suppose you could play the sympathy vote (although weak).
At a minimum you could lie and say you'll buy them a round of drinks, once you get in, just bail!

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March 30th '13

What a night! One of my best nights so far. Where to start describing...i tried out the 'work the room' theory. By god does it work! You're value goes through the roof in the bar, girls actually start coming to you, or when you go talk to them, are so easy to open and build rapport.

By the end of the night, i would say half of the entire bar knew my name (and i remembered most of theirs). I was simply bouncing around the place. When i saw a new girl i liked, i simply started a convo with some one i knew near her, and dragged her in with ease.
One way i can describe it is: if you've ever been depressed...and you have a downward spiral. Well this was the opposite. It felt increadible being the most desirable/popular guy in the bar.

However, this night wasn't without mistakes and a few lessons to learn:
I made two main mistakes:

1 - Don't say bluntly that you're going back to yours or hers. I litteraly said "yours or mine" - boom game over. She won't reply texts as im just that typical guy with 1 thing on his mind.

I need to start being much more seductive/subtle. Like kasabi says in an earlier post, just say you're going back for drinks, or to see your cat do back flips. Keep it friendly and casual.
When leading her back to mine/hers. Keep her mind off the fact you're heading to your/her place. Talk about anything else. (Tips obtain from the book im reading SPAM)

Mistake 2- dont be a saviour! I was talking to 2 hot american girls. My game was really strong, they were both hooked. I then had my first obstacle: AMOG comes in and tries to out alpha male me. Im extremely proud how i handled this: he comes in, litteraly barges me aside, one of the girls doesnt really like this, and shows it, i simply smile at her, and carry on talking to her. Not mentioning it, just it ignoring it.
Amog doesnt like this, and squares up to me, hes a big guy. I smile at him, and shake his hand, we exchange names, and he instantly goes for the demonstration of higher value, he says: " im joining the army next month at the royal engineers" i smile and agree how great that is, its a great achievement.

The clever part is this: i start bigging him up massively, saying things like how great it is to serve the country blah blah.. So right now, he has really high value, and this girls are impressed.
My favourite bit: "so what do you do chris?" Amog asks in a slightly demeaning way, expecting me to now have Much less value than him.
I reply: "oh im in the Royal Air Force". Hahahaha, its so funny looking back, his jaw drops, and the girls frame, body language switch instantenously, it was hilarious! It worked a treat. Now normlly i like to set the challenge of not using my job as a chat up/ convo user. However this was too good to miss!!
The amog becomes really friendly, we get along in the end, the two girls are hooked. Me and my friend decide to move to the next bar, we invite the girls to meet us there later.

So to the failure: we meet the two americans again, however the amog is still there, and pretty drunk too, hes being a typical disgusting bloke, hes groping and touching these girls everywhere when they clearly dislike it and reject it. Eventually one has enough, and pushes him away, both girls look upset and go to the bar. And i make my mistake, i start justifying myself, that im their saviour. - i wont treat them like that.. And so forth. At this time they clearly have had enough of men in general and just leave.

So in conclusion: a stripper doesnt want you to save her and wisk her away, nor do girls at the bar! Let them feel they can handle themselves.

Ok... Now to review what else i did good: 2 number closes, 1 pretty australian girl which i defintely could of banged if i played it better (i dont think shell text back, we'll see!)
The second was a stunning brazilian girl, we planned to meet again and play our acoustic guitars

God i could write for ages... I did so much last night.
Also did good:
I conversed well, i didnt just ask interviewer questions, i dug deeper, asked more intimate questions, i really connected the most of the people in the bar as a genuine friendly guy, which is what you need, ratherthan an image of a player.
Oh and another tip for you! It works a treat for an opener, when you make eye contact with a girl from afar, force a reaction from her, stick your tongue out or point at her with a smile, she will most likely laugh and look away, DONT Hesistate! Go straight there and open with along the lines of: i saw you eyeing me up over there, i couldnt just stand there and let you perve at me! - something light hearted and friendly is fine.

So thats the high lights, its not the best written post ive made... But its from my phone at the moment, ill tidy it up when im home

So lastly im adding a few things to my cheat sheet:

“The Guide”

Build state of mind. + energy level.

Don't look like you're on the prowl, if anything ignore the women and focus on your mates!

Oppose your frame to the other men in the room. (if they're acting like mr super cool, you be high energy mr sociable etc..)

Work the room. Be friendly to everyone, cheers and hi five everywhere!

Maximise opening opportunities

The Three Musketeers- (Mr Sociable, Mr Comfort, Mr Seducer)

Cold and warm openers (point/stick tongue at eye contact)

-Direct
This is kind of random - but youre too cute not to say hi.


-Indirect openers:
(After pointing at them) - are you undressing me with your eyes?
Are you guys make bashing?
You look familiar - have we had sex??
I MUST TRY - open a random group with - hey sorry im late!! Lol (really big table)
Which one of you is the toughest?
My friends are aruging...How old do i look?
Hey, im out to meet people tonight, whats your name?
My girlfriend thinks you're hot (point at random girl)
I have a policy of meeting the hottest girl in the club. My names chris


-Remember your body language when opening (slightly aside, open gesture)

-Escalate, touch.

-Talk with passion!! Everything you do and like is AWESOME! Make her like it just as much.

-Building rapport:
State things about her, have a rough guess, she will usually find your statements in herself (horrorscope articles)
Ask deeper questions, be different to the other guys!:
Do you remember your first day at school?
If you could wake up anywhere in the world where would it be?
Whats the one thing you cant say no too?
What talents do you have that would surpise me?
Have you ever been in love? -(not sure on this one, but will it a go)

Closing:
Casually ask for number:
Ive had a great time and want carry it on again, what are you doing thursday? - grab number

One night stand:
Got cheaper drinks at yours?

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Sunday 12/05/13
I've hit another euphoria moment. I am honestly buzzing and giddy right now. Excited at how prosperous my future can be. All my friends are spending their time and effort getting degree or qualifications so they can get mundane 40-50K 40+ hour week jobs.
Me?
I'm going to put my resources into being the exception. It's like i can see in a new and different light.

The reason behind this?
I've just read the book 'The 4-hour work week' by Timothy Ferris. - I highly recommend it. I think lads, my life is about to change dramatically. Hold tight, and watch closely for further news. I can make it and succeed, this Journal might be the most valuable thing on this website.

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This books sounds very interesting. I'm downloading it on my kindle now. Typically, if I see such awful reviews on Amazon, I tend to stay away but you've convinced me. I'll let you know what I think once I've read it.

Also . . . the book's intro reminded me of a buddy's dad who while we were growing up, 'disappeared' for 6 winter months and traveled the World. When he got back, the guy was like a business monk.

Kasabi,
Great to hear from you as always, i am eager to hear your praises and criticisms of this book.
As a heads up, the start is basic and hard to read in my opinion, the juicy stuff comes in about page 50.
I'm glad i convinced you, whatever your opinion of the book, there is no doubt he is a very intuitive and smart guy, very efficient and different way of thinking.
I personally wont take everything literately as with everything. I will adapt it to my way of work and put my own spin on it. But this has given me the push and resources i needed to take my life another step further.


To mark the next step of my life, the lyrics are spookily relevant and just because i find this song awesome: please listen to this while reading this post:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktvTqknDobU

I think i feel so great right now is because I've found another direction. Another drive to put my resources and effort towards.
Recently i've just been enjoying life. Relaxed. Carefree. But recently I felt like i was having a crisis. I wanted to achieve something. I wanted to make something of myself, i wanted a girlfriend to share these experiences. At the same time i wanted to have a care free attitude, to travel. This book hit the nail on the spot and is given me the answers i wanted. Some would argue fate here. Its a very high coincidence.

So what is going to make my life change i hear you ask?
Well i let you in on my current scheme. Its dramatic, risky and some would say crazy to say the least.
and yet... that's what makes me so sure i can make it work. because who else is mad enough to do this? not many - therefore not as much competition!

I am currently unhappy with my work in the RAF at the moment.
Allow me to clarify:
-I waste most evenings stuck on base. Unproductive, unachieving. I am wasting precious moments of my life sitting in my pants in my room on base surrounded by men (about 250 men to 1 girl here at least!), i would go out and meet girls, however i live in a tiny village, with nearest 'city' (if you can call it that) being a 40min + drive away.
-So: i can't meet the girl of my dreams, and to be honest, if you look at the state of this area, she doesn't exist here.
-My job i enjoy, however i feel its limiting my potential massively. Promotion is limited to 3 years minimum. My wage wont go near £30k+ a year for another 5 or so years
-My wage WAS good for my age. But i will start to fall behind before long.
-I cant be efficient with my time, i literately have to stick to 8-12 hour days, there is no increased efficient or production in my line of work. It is simply work 8-12 hours straight non stop.

Of course, ive only put the cons here. Im fully aware of the positives, im still a lot better off than most.
However, i truly believe i can achieve more still. I will not stay content with "im doing ok".

So what's your plan then? i hear you eagerly ask.
I have a few:
1: come up with some product designs and take them further into production (i always store ideas and theories on my laptop, i have TONS of them! surely i can make money from one of them?)
2: The most likely so far: set up an adventure travel company.
I get to travel, i get to take people out of adventure sports: Mountain biking, skiing, kayaking, canyoning. You name it. I already have experience/qualification in almost all the sports thanks to the RAF. Most of all, it what i love doing the most.
I would go into detail about my business plan and so forth, however i should be spending time building/researching that, not telling you about it!
3: My backup job if my business venture fails: take up Python programming in London. (which i currently do in the RAF also, the program works with the databus system) - At least i can find a decent girl there with a job im happy with! (still better than my current position! with a slight pay increase.) - and i could venture into a pick up company or just become a master at it (rather than my current advanced level)
In conclusion: I will be leaving the RAF within the next year. 5 Years early. A very big statement to say. I must mean it to claim such a thing!

So... that's my thoughts for now. I will update when necessary!
Regards to all,
Boyo

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Tuesday 14th May 2013.

So... following the book and doing a bit of revision for myself, i think i have come up with a business model for me muse (read the book or Google and you'll know what a muse means)

I wrote out all my hobbies and interests to pick a target audience for my product.
I have isolated from about 15 choices, 3 target audiences from my hobbies
I have since decided to go for one of the 3 targets. I had 3 options on the target: create a product, license or resell a product. I've gone for create one. - I've picked a small target audience, makes competition easier, less customers to handle which will help iron out any errors and so forth.
Lastly, ive decided to make a information product rather than a physical item. It makes it harder to replicate/reproduce at a lower price. IE less competition.

This is going to take a fair few weeks to develop. Ill let you all know when its done! (so you can help me on my quest by buying my products :D:D:D:D) - I joke..

Wish me luck and haste!

Regards,

Boyo

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Sounds cool. Let us know how things go!

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http://wayoftheplayer.com/become-a-player/instinct

A very concerning read:

http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2011/10 ... erformance

I think this could be my problem!! - have i finally found it?

EDIT: That's it!! Porn ban!

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Dear Audience,

Tonight has been the first night I've been able to "game" since our last post (which was june time??) It's safe to say, it makes a massive difference. I was absolutely awful. It feels like i need to take the step ladder again to achieve what i could before. I also have disappointing myself and let you guys down by not continuing to write in my diary like i said i would.

But i'm determined to get back in the routine. Because i was top of my game and almost unstoppable before. I've had a few hard months, and a few hard weeks to come. But by the end of October, i will have a whole new routine to set in place.

I'll write down the full new routine and updated objectives.

Until then,

Boyo

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“The Guide v1.3”

Build state of mind. + energy level. - This means create a mind set where life is great. Bring up some recent stories of recent success and adventure. If you haven't had any recently, bring some up from distant past and say that was recent.

Confidence! Carefreeness.

Don't look like you're on the prowl, if anything ignore the women and focus on your mates!

Oppose your frame to the other men in the room. (if they're acting like mr super cool, you be high energy mr sociable etc..)

Work the room. Be friendly to everyone, cheers and hi five everywhere!

Maximise opening opportunities - remember, you're just being social, don't show you're actually trying to hit on any girl.

The Three Musketeers- (Mr Sociable, Mr Comfort, Mr Seducer)

Cold and warm openers (point/stick tongue at eye contact)

-Direct
This is kind of random - but youre too cute not to say hi.


-Indirect openers:
(After pointing at them) - are you undressing me with your eyes?
Are you guys make bashing?
You look familiar - have we had sex??
I MUST TRY - open a random group with - hey sorry im late!! Lol (really big table)
Which one of you is the toughest?
My friends are aruging...How old do i look?
Hey, im out to meet people tonight, whats your name?
My girlfriend thinks you're hot (point at random girl)
I have a policy of meeting the hottest girl in the club. My names chris


-Remember your body language when opening (slightly aside, open gesture)

-Escalate, touch.

-Talk with passion!! Everything you do and like is AWESOME! Make her like it just as much.

-Building rapport:
State things about her, have a rough guess, she will usually find your statements in herself (known as cold reading just like horror-scope articles)
Ask deeper questions, be different to the other guys!:
Do you remember your first day at school?
If you could wake up anywhere in the world where would it be?
Whats the one thing you cant say no too?
What talents do you have that would surprise me?
Have you ever been in love? -(not sure on this one, but will it a go)
Use DHV's - have a flat/house. Recent adventures, people you've socialised with. (girls like security, some one social, adventurous, wealth etc.. have a story that hits each one of these categories)

Closing:
Casually ask for number:
At the end of the night, say goodbye and start casually walking away, then turn around saying: you know, you're a lot shyer than i thought you would be.
She probably asks why:
Well because i'm leaving and you not even asked about my number

One night stand:
Got cheaper drinks at yours?

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