Hey guys, so to make this simple and quick - I've started out on this forum more than 7 years ago and it helped me develop myself tremendously.
Now I want to help guys who are in the same situation as I was, who want to get good with women, but also feel confident and proud of themselves in general.
That's why I want to offer my help. If you have any question regarding starting conversations, keeping it going, showing a girl that you like her or any insecurity you may have - ask your question below, and I will do my best to answer it in video format.
I want literally nothing in return, it is just my way of helping you guys out.
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-how to maintain healthy relationships where you can be yourself, lose the need to show off and seduce her full time, while keeping her interested. Like it or not, a relationship is beta-izing.
-how to transition from successful dates into a relationship. should we make the woman work for it?
Yes I know you want the views, it's okay for me tho.
On a side note your looks improved a fuckin lot in the last 18 months. Good job.
Hey guys, so to make this simple and quick - I've started out on this forum more than 7 years ago and it helped me develop myself tremendously.
Now I want to help guys who are in the same situation as I was, who want to get good with women, but also feel confident and proud of themselves in general.
That's why I want to offer my help. If you have any question regarding starting conversations, keeping it going, showing a girl that you like her or any insecurity you may have - ask your question below, and I will do my best to answer it in video format.
I want literally nothing in return, it is just my way of helping you guys out.
ASK YOUR QUESTIONS BELOW.
I have a question: what is your inspiration, where did u leanr most of your skills? what method do u use, Mystery one? I am reading mystery method, but I think it only works with 8-10, what about if i want 3-7 , would they feel afraid if I use tactics for 8-10?
Sure you do. You want views on your channel.
I personally have nothing against you promoting your material Phantom, but call it what it is.
Love you too man.
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-how to maintain healthy relationships where you can be yourself, lose the need to show off and seduce her full time, while keeping her interested. Like it or not, a relationship is beta-izing.
-how to transition from successful dates into a relationship. should we make the woman work for it?
On a side note your looks improved a fuckin lot in the last 18 months. Good job.
Thanks for the compliment. Check out the video for answers for your question.
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I have a question: what is your inspiration, where did u leanr most of your skills? what method do u use, Mystery one? I am reading mystery method, but I think it only works with 8-10, what about if i want 3-7 , would they feel afraid if I use tactics for 8-10?
Great question. Answered it in the video.
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Why do the Detroit lions always play on thanksgiving, no matter how bad their record has been?
Sure you do. You want views on your channel.
I personally have nothing against you promoting your material Phantom, but call it what it is.
Love you too man.
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-how to maintain healthy relationships where you can be yourself, lose the need to show off and seduce her full time, while keeping her interested. Like it or not, a relationship is beta-izing.
-how to transition from successful dates into a relationship. should we make the woman work for it?
On a side note your looks improved a fuckin lot in the last 18 months. Good job.
Thanks for the compliment. Check out the video for answers for your question.
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I have a question: what is your inspiration, where did u leanr most of your skills? what method do u use, Mystery one? I am reading mystery method, but I think it only works with 8-10, what about if i want 3-7 , would they feel afraid if I use tactics for 8-10?
Great question. Answered it in the video.
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Why do the Detroit lions always play on thanksgiving, no matter how bad their record has been?
thank u very much for your time and reply. they were quite useful
The next question would be:
1) what do u think of peacocking , do I need to dress like mystery? Have u ever tried it=?
2) How can u approach in the street?.
I can do it at bars but in the street I am afraid they think I am a pervert or rapist. Cause while u can use openers in bars and false time constraint, to make the girls think that u are not itnerested in their sexuality or in themselves, girls in the street always will know that ua re interested in them, so they will use their shield. Also take into account that u will lose high replication and survival value cause u will seem desperate.
I have come to the realization that I am a pussy, and i don´t really know how to reverse this situation.
Im a tall guy, good looking most of the times, i dont hit the gym but i do regular exercise at home and take it seriously, so i look sporty, i would say tham i´m a 7.5//10, but unfortunately, i just understood that looks won´t take me anywhere.So here´s my atitutde:
-Shy- I dont know what to say unless i´m really confortable with the other person.
-I see a lot of girls checking me out in the bus and in the school, but i don´t approach them because i think i would fail and look stupid.
-Can´t keep a conversation for too long (with boys and girls)
-I get intimidated by people with a lot of attitude, so when they talk with me i feel like i´m looking stupid because i´m a pussy.
-I loose motivation quickly.
I used to think that loosing my virginity would make me less pussy but i was wrong.
Just posted this here because i feel frustrated by seeing all these lads(most of them ugly) in my school full of atitude and shit walking around with girls, and i was already like them, i just don´t know what made me change.
This is too a lesson for all the guys that say that you need to look good to get bitches. Attitude is everything.
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I have come to the realization that I am a pussy, and i don´t really know how to reverse this situation.
Im a tall guy, good looking most of the times, i dont hit the gym but i do regular exercise at home and take it seriously, so i look sporty, i would say tham i´m a 7.5//10, but unfortunately, i just understood that looks won´t take me anywhere.So here´s my atitutde:
-Shy- I dont know what to say unless i´m really confortable with the other person.
-I see a lot of girls checking me out in the bus and in the school, but i don´t approach them because i think i would fail and look stupid.
-Can´t keep a conversation for too long (with boys and girls)
-I get intimidated by people with a lot of attitude, so when they talk with me i feel like i´m looking stupid because i´m a pussy.
-I loose motivation quickly.
I used to think that loosing my virginity would make me less pussy but i was wrong.
Just posted this here because i feel frustrated by seeing all these lads(most of them ugly) in my school full of atitude and shit walking around with girls, and i was already like them, i just don´t know what made me change.
This is too a lesson for all the guys that say that you need to look good to get bitches. Attitude is everything.
Man, you with the heady, non sense advice.
You wanna know how to be less of a pussy???
1. Hit the gym. Get stronger. Faster. Leaner. Bigger. More explosive. More flexible. Learn to fight. Force your body to be as bad ass as possible. By doing so, you will also train your mind to be as bad ass as possible. Train yourself as a warrior and you will become a warrior. It also makes you feel better about yourself when you look like you're carved out of wood.
2. Learn a unique skill (or skills). I've got alot of things I'm good at. It makes me very confident in myself. You can't take those things away from me. You can't disprove them or make me any less great at these things. If you want to feel like a real bad ass, create a lifestyle around things you are good at.
3. Stop masturbating and watching porn. I'm pretty much to a point now where I can spot the weirdos who sit around in dark rooms, dazing off into computer screens with crazy sex scenes playing whilst fondling themselves. You might as well where a sign on your neck. Theres nothing that screams "I'm a pussy" like a dude who sits around playing with himself all day.
4. Get a sense of style. Hair cut. Tattoos. Piercings. Clothing. Accessories. These are all things that not only make you look more bad ass... But feel more bad ass. Someone snapped a picture of me in a sleeveless shirt the other day at the gym. It had been a while since I've see a picture of myself and I thought "damn, I look like one bad ass mother fucker." Having the appearance reinforces the belief.
5. Stop being afraid to break the rules. Bad ass people don't necessarily play by the rules. Some may call Tom Brady a cheater for what he did being involved in the ball inflation scandal. I see him as a bad ass who got caught with his hand in the cookie jar. In this life, nobody gives you anything. If you want something, you've got to take it.
See, I like practical advice. Things you can actually do... Not advice like "Just accept it and blah blah blah blah blah." Again, get to the point.
1. Hit the gym. Get stronger. Faster. Leaner. Bigger. More explosive. More flexible. Learn to fight. Force your body to be as bad ass as possible. By doing so, you will also train your mind to be as bad ass as possible.
Could not agree more. And be what you want to attract. It's that simple.
You want the 9/10 hot ass yoga girl who is consistently at the gym with a ridiculous ass (my gf, lol)? Then get your fat, flabby ass in shape.
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2. Learn a unique skill (or skills). I've got alot of things I'm good at. It makes me very confident in myself. You can't take those things away from me. You can't disprove them or make me any less great at these things. If you want to feel like a real bad ass, create a lifestyle around things you are good at.
Agreed again. This is huge. If you work in sheet metal, be the best sheet metal guy in town, etc.
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"Hit the gym" is usually worthless advice unless you actually suggest a relevant program for someone to follow. Seriously, the results can take forever or be non-existent. Then the guy gets even more depressed and gives up.
Far better advice is to upgrade your wardrobe and personal grooming, if possible. Basically requires $$$ and far less time, but is in many cases (surveys and research) regarded as more important than being in good shape, forget "aesthetically pleasing."
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I agree too on the "skill" part - if you can find a hobby or something interesting to do, it can give you something to talk about or even connect on with your girl of interest.
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