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I've never been one to follow those kinds of instructions. I found myself working harder than I had to.
When you're of high quality the people in the room and the women you're talking to while know it as well. You will walk high quality, talk like high quality, and the look on your face will represent high quality. Your aura will be that as well.
I've always felt like advice like the one in your post was written for low quality guys to cheat their way into some quick panties. The thing is; it always leaves them empty and without a girl after a short time. You want to actually be sought out. You want to actually project a frame that qualifies without you having to say much.
And you want to make sure you are actually worth having that which you are qualifying for. Because if you are and you radiant that; this whole concept of damage control doesn't happen.
My presence is qualifying. I'm a man. And she is a woman. The whole concept of getting women isn't as sciencey as it is made to seem by many of these books. You just have to understand the truths about women phycology and you will be attracting the women you want with a lot less effort.
What if you fuck up? For example, I was thinking this route of damage control when I met up with a woman after I had a few drinks with my buddy. Let say after I had a few drinks with my buddy, I called her and asked to meet up at another bar that same night...I was drunk...and I made a fool out of myself LOL. Before that, attraction was high because she was sending me selfies and double texts....and I just made a mistake that night of drinking too much with my friend. Ever since then, I have been trying to meet up with her again to redo it all over again but she hasn't been biting ever since that bad first date. Even a simple selfie is met with resistance...because in the past she had no problem. What do you do then?
I personally would of gave it a day, and then called her on the phone to restablish my position. When the substitute teacher comes in the class everyone acts a fool a bit. But once the teacher returns they'll straighten back out. Your drunk self was the substitute. Bring back the teacher. By continuing to push and chase you're implying that you're still the substitute. Its all how you feel inside. If you feel unworthy of her now internally because of one lil fuck up, then you are infact unworthy. Part of your high quality status says " I can't fuck up, every once in a while and you'll still love me"
She only reflecting what your state is back to you. If you can return to the state of before she will return to the position she was in before as well. And thats all apart of strongly establishing yourself as that which you want to be, and not so much just having moments as that guy.
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. I think the reason I felt strongly about it was because I was pretty hard on myself that I messed up not on my natural ability but because of of drinking too much. But it's cool, I'll brush it off next time...hopeffully no deja vu .