"I don't like sex " need responce.....

Foxx21

Okay I was with this hb7 saturday night and I asked her how many orgasnm she ever gotten in one night ? And she tells me one but she wasn't sure and that "I don't like sex"....... in my head I was like wtf ? "oh you don't" I was shocked to find she only had sex to please her exboyfriend but she was never into, how do I handle this type of situation, this is new to me that someone would say something like this.

blak000 · Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 9:49 pm Post subject:

RUN! Run as quick as your little legs can carry you!!!!

Foxx21 · Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 9:56 pm Post subject:

Foxx21 · Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 9:56 pm Post subject:

I can't dude now I need to find a way to at least say sorry for making feel her uncomfortable, that what her friends said but damn I was sure we had a good time, we laugh we had fun but I guess something went wrong I don't what it was maybe because I rub thighs or something but in my defense she said that turn her on! idk wtf how to deal with this? I'm not dealing with girl anymore she can say whatever she want.

sydarm · Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 1:21 am Post subject:

Tell her that her ex didn't know what the hell he was doing...he wasn't doing it right... Instruct her to give you some time alone with her, and that she'll change her mind...and make sure u know what the hell ur doing if she takes u up on it lol.

Either something like that or get outta there. I wouldn't proceed without the frame of it being a sexual relationship.

Papi Lindo · Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 1:53 am Post subject:

When she says: "I don't like sex..."

You look at her, with a cocked head...then shift your glance to the side away from her.

Lift your hands in front of you, chest level, and face your palms towards you. Then move them in opposite directions alternatively, away and towards you.

Say: "This (pause) is not working."

C&F are important here and do not apologize if she gives you a shit test. If she responds negatively, cut the thread and change the topic.

Foxx21 · Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 1:46 pm Post subject:

I told her not to talk to me today, That ive been feeling guilty all week because of what she said to me, She laugh i told it not funny Im not bitch im just sensitive sometimes because i care, And she offer me hug i told no not when im done feeling like this! LOL

parkour · Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 6:42 pm Post subject:

I would have said:
"That's okay some people aren't good at it anyway..."
Which works in multiple ways

-Implying she sucked
-Implying her ex-bf sucked, putting down the ex's is always good
-Introducing sex as competition

Depending on how she takes it you you even get a *close out of the first:
start a new thread, when you feel it is right say
"since you suck at sex, I bet you suck at kissing too"

there you go, you win.

After that learn the non-intercourse types of sexual contact. Any loser and put his dick in the hole and pull it out (repeat), but the guy that can get her off while driving (my "shifting" routine) or make writhe for 30 minutes plus with your tongue. That guy gets a toy out of it.

Being PUA means doing what other guys don't. But it also means doing it WELL. That is the key. Plus the non-intercourse things most people don't see as sex, so you get little LMR.

But beware, you need to move on or you could get stuck without sex. Make sure she repays the favor. Wink

Foxx21 · Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 8:55 pm Post subject:

That a good one right there, It set a challenge in her mind but what about if she resist because honestly man that what it felt like everytime i brought it up, She like swicthes the convo every time but i kept the strong frame through out the convo, Question is how do I say imply something that doesnt seem avoidable.

mOlis_pir3s · Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 11:01 pm Post subject:

i havnt understood..have you guys already k-closed or not?

unforgiveable9 · Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 7:18 pm Post subject:

hb "i dont like sex"
you i can change that

Foxx21 · Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 4:04 pm Post subject:

We didnt k close or anything like that, Here what i told her when we were talking about sex " you couldnt handle me little girl ill brake you in half" She laugh but like in way that makes girl blush at the same time but i let you know what happen.

Clancey · Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 2:32 pm Post subject:

It's difficult to give advice without knowing the context of the situation. If you're saying things like "I'll split you open" without enough attraction and comfort then you could be putting her off sex even more.

I'd definitely just presume that it was her ex's fault she didn't like it though. I'd try letting her know you understand WHY she doesn't like it, and in the process perhaps explain to her (she may not know) why she doesn't like it.

Say something along the lines of, "Yeah I know how you feel, my ex-girlfriend was...blah blah blah....and I just didn't connect with her in bed either, but when you really connect with someone you'll love it."

Hmmm...that can probably be improved on with some DHV spikes etc but something along those lines could work...

nosferatu · Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 3:34 pm Post subject:

hb: "i don't like sex"
pua: "you're a bad liar"

Roads · Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 12:08 pm Post subject:

"That's fine, I don't like sex either. Lets just be friends."

...

Oh damn I suck at this.

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