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Ruckus1987
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 Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 6:11 pm Post subject: "Family Issues" |
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Hey, so I picked up this HB9a few weeks ago and we have been out a few times. She said she would plan our next date, and shit at the end of our last one. Anyways, we had plans to go out last night, but like 3 hours before she called and said she couldn't make it due to "family issues." I don't know if that is bullshit, or legit, so I am kind of in a corner here about what to do. I wouldn't mind seeing her again, but I don't want to look desperate by asking her out again after she may or may not have legititely had family things to attend to... Regardless,I went out and number closed an HB8 last night, as a replacement  Hopefully I can get the HB9 to stick around for a little more though 
We usually text each other, so any input would be great about what to say. I am thinking of freezing her out for 4 days, and see if she says anything... |
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King Korona
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| nah man this isn't a freeze out situation. if this family issues are true thats not a good thing to do, for all you know a close family member could have died so i don't think freezing her out will make your situation any better if anyhting it will make it worse. this is a tough one since i have never experienced that exact thing before but i would go with a more casual ''hangout'' before returning to a date status. |
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blak000
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Yeah, I agree with Korona. Girls aren't always trying to pull some bull. She could very well be telling you the truth. Just text her to let her know you understand, and that you hope everything turns out OK.
After that, just go about your business. She'll text you back soon enough.
If she doesn't, then just move on. You've got other girls to meet. |
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Ruckus1987
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| Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 6:08 am Post subject: |
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Good Advice- Thanks.
I checked out that girl that I number closed that night online, and she is actually as hot if not hotter than the girl i was supposed to go out with that night... funny how things turn out in your favor sometimes  |
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Roads
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Had a similar experience recently (you and me along with 5 million other men probably).
Check it out in Zip's thread here:
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