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Help! Re-game a girl that I didn't game initially???
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Author:  yanny [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Help! Re-game a girl that I didn't game initially???
hi guys, i need help!!

here's my situation:

i have been able to pick up women pretty easily and generally know PUA techniques that work quite well.

that being said, i met a girl about 1.5 months ago that i became very connected to very quickly. since meeting her, i haven't wanted to date/hook up with anyone else (which is very out of character for me!!!)

we have been seeing each other about once a week for the past 3-4 weeks. i took her out on valentine's day, she invited me to a party at her house, etc. we have a great connection and great time together (and are sexually active).

she'll respond to my text messages immediately, but never seems to initiate the conversation. she'll always be up for hanging out when i recommend a certain day, but never initiates to meet up herself.

we text every couple days, if not every day, but it's always initiated by me. i know i should not text her, but because i have so much time right now since i'm not working, it feels like an eternity between talking to her.

I KNOW I SHOULDN'T HAVE, but I have told her how much i'm into her and that i haven't wanted to hook up with anyone else since meeting her. i also told her lots of compliments and i think she knows how into her i am. STUPID, I KNOW!!!

the thing is, we are at a point now in our dating relationship where i'm not sure if i should go back, back off, etc. because i don't want to sabotage what we built up this far. i don't think she's playing games, and feel if she feels that i am, she will. she's always excited to and AVAILABLE to hang out, and i fear if i start playing the game, then we won't hang out as much (like she won't take initiative to invite me, and she will also start not being as available following my lead).

i feel pathetic and this is very out of character for me. i've been with a lot of women, and usually am not like this, but she is really special and i'm afraid of screwing it up and losing her. don't know if to try to re-game her or if that's going to f-up the things, trust, rapport, that we've built up this far.

advice? please!

thx!
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 3:21 am ]
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Posted on this thread.... viewtopic.php?p=219840#219840
Author:  chri$ [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 7:13 am ]
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You answered your own question... STOP texting her, STOP talking to her. Your to a point now where she knows she has you, she flipped the game on you. You have to flip it back and gain control before you lose her for good. One way to look at it: Your probably going to lose her either way, you might as well lose her with dignity. That Mr. nice guy (telling her how you feel after 1.5 months) stuff needs to get out of your mind immediatly. You are a PUA, YOU set the rules, not her. YOU decide when YOU want to answer her calls or return her texts. Let her see you hanging out with other people, build jealousy. Make her believe you dont need her, she needs you. Dont push it too far because its still salvagable, but still push. Dont be affraid of losing her, be affraid of losing YOU... Good luck! Turn your cell phone off for a couple/few days... that helps me when I get the urge to bless an undeserving woman with my time. Peace!
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