I'm sure there's been questions about Facebook game before, but I was wondering if anyone could help with my particular situation.
I hooked up with this girl a month ago. (See my field report: coed-10-years-my-junior-vt184989.html) Everything went great. She told me I was the best lay she ever had, even saying she wasn't good enough for me. Later that day, she even thanked me via Facebook.
Anyway, I have a chance to go visit her again in March. She lives close to a town where all the bigwigs and one low man (myself) from my company are going for a week. It will be easy for me to make a small side trip to go see her before meeting with the rest of the group.
Anyway, I wanted to surprise her and get her excited for my visit. I asked her via Facebook to tell me what her fantasy date would be like. Tell me in detail where she'd go and what she'd do. She responded she never thought of it before because no one has asked her. She said it had got her thinking, but she didn't know specifically what a perfect date would be like. She said as long as she could laugh and feel happy and comfortable, that would be a perfect date. I then told her the dates I would be in her town and told her I wanted to see her.
And... nothing. I was expecting an enthusiastic response given our previous encounters. Facebook gives a time stamp of when your message was seen. So I know she saw it several days ago.
What should I do? Should I prompt a response with something casual like, "Of course you don't have to commit to anything this far in advance"? Should I sit tight and wait for her to possibly reply? Or, since it will still be four months from now, should I wait until things get closer. I just don't want to book a nice hotel if there's no chance of seeing her.
Thanks in advance for your advice!
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