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Author:  PUA-Paris [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 7:57 am ]
Post subject:  I blow it off with every girl attracted to me!
You might assume I'm being exaggerating but no, every female in my high school is charmed by me or attracted to me until I actually try to get at them. Some females, they're easy get along with so I handle them extremely well and get them desperate for me lmao. But then there are the females that I actually want, they're attracted to me, I get at them and bam, everything goes downhill so I just back off before I really look low value.

I'm an attractive charming guy best when I'm in a group or with a specific female. With girls I actually am really interested in, I'm horrible individually speaking. I have a fun personality, a weird one that girls love until we're getting to know each other one on one.

I'm 17 and I've had sex with 5 different females, I've hooked up many times, so my only problem right now is actually learning to get serious and settling down with a female that really interests me.

Fuck this post is so messy, I literally just confused the shit out of myself thinking about all of this.

I can't seem to understand my problem but I'm going to list a few things that I believe are my problems


-texting, I'm really bad at texting and that's all females do nowadays
-I don't drive, and since I'm bad at texting, I can't really attract them through text to the point where they're willing to drive to me
-When I come across a girl that really interests me, I might become intimidated
-I have a hard time escalating through the levels of pickup..build attraction, build comfort, get them to see a future with you, and start leading them towards the dating/relationship stage
-I have a problem distinguishing coming off too weak or coming off too strong
-I think my main problem is being a boring weird texter, other than that, I'm quite good in person
-I have a hard time getting girls to take me seriously enough for dating/relationship (I'm a flirt)

My game's all mixed up basically. Fuck, what a confusing post. Make the best of it guys and please understand me lol
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 4:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I blow it off with every girl attracted to me!
Quote:
You might assume I'm being exaggerating but no, every female in my high school is charmed by me or attracted to me until I actually try to get at them. Some females, they're easy get along with so I handle them extremely well and get them desperate for me lmao. But then there are the females that I actually want, they're attracted to me, I get at them and bam, everything goes downhill so I just back off before I really look low value.

I'm an attractive charming guy best when I'm in a group or with a specific female. With girls I actually am really interested in, I'm horrible individually speaking. I have a fun personality, a weird one that girls love until we're getting to know each other one on one.

I'm 17 and I've had sex with 5 different females, I've hooked up many times, so my only problem right now is actually learning to get serious and settling down with a female that really interests me.

Fuck this post is so messy, I literally just confused the shit out of myself thinking about all of this.

I can't seem to understand my problem but I'm going to list a few things that I believe are my problems


-texting, I'm really bad at texting and that's all females do nowadays
-I don't drive, and since I'm bad at texting, I can't really attract them through text to the point where they're willing to drive to me
-When I come across a girl that really interests me, I might become intimidated
-I have a hard time escalating through the levels of pickup..build attraction, build comfort, get them to see a future with you, and start leading them towards the dating/relationship stage
-I have a problem distinguishing coming off too weak or coming off too strong
-I think my main problem is being a boring weird texter, other than that, I'm quite good in person
-I have a hard time getting girls to take me seriously enough for dating/relationship (I'm a flirt)

My game's all mixed up basically. Fuck, what a confusing post. Make the best of it guys and please understand me lol
Your 17 and have banged 5 girls? Not to shitty Bro. Close to my own "Notch Belt" at that age, don't beat your self up to bad, there are lots & lots of guys have not hit that many by age 30!

So you must be doing "Something" that works.

NOW, what I am getting here is that your short term goal is to get better at text messaging?

So I'm going to send you these two links that cover that topic fairly well.

1.: 7-texting-mistakes-stolen-from-a-pro-vt137303.html

2.: list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html

Now go kill some numbers Bro
Author:  smushed [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 4:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I blow it off with every girl attracted to me!
Yeah, you're all over the place. My impression is that your mid game is weak. You can open easily, when a girl bites you can close easily. However, if you get a girl you want to see more seriously you struggle. Is that right?

My first answer is, jesus man, you're 17. That's how you should be. The part of your brain that is for relationships hasn't even finished developing yet. That's the fun part about guys, you're sex drive comes first in development, then your relationship part comes after. Maybe just wait until you're 21 to get into relationships. ;)
Author:  PUA-Paris [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 4:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I blow it off with every girl attracted to me!
Quote:
Yeah, you're all over the place. My impression is that your mid game is weak. You can open easily, when a girl bites you can close easily. However, if you get a girl you want to see more seriously you struggle. Is that right?

My first answer is, jesus man, you're 17. That's how you should be. The part of your brain that is for relationships hasn't even finished developing yet. That's the fun part about guys, you're sex drive comes first in development, then your relationship part comes after. Maybe just wait until you're 21 to get into relationships. ;)

I've been in a relationship before, handled it well and maturely. The reason I ended up in the relationship to begin with was because we clicked easily. I want to learn how to fake that clicking if you know what I mean. The thing that blows my mind is I even have guys charmed by me because I'm popular, these losers get more chicks or easier hook ups than me, maybe I just intimidate females which ends up reflecting on me and I intimidate myself or some mindfuck thing like that lol but yeah whatever it is, it's making me cockblock myself when I can easily get a lot of pussy. I really think it's the fact that I don't drive yet
Author:  smushed [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 8:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I blow it off with every girl attracted to me!
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I really think it's the fact that I don't drive yet


It has nothing to do with that.

It's too difficult right now to see how to advise. Start from the last girl that you thought was stellar. Do a field report on it. Be detailed, but concise and use LOTS of separate paragraphs.

The process of analyzing your experience through writing will already give you clues; also then the community can see where you are weak and give advice.
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