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| Author: | The Mellow [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 9:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | We sleep but don't fuck, what is wrong??!! |
So I've been talking to this girl for about 4 weeks now. The two times I had her alone at my house she was on her period, or so she says. She came over last weekend and slept with me two days in a row. Same story. The second day there was absolutely no sexual tension and she just got completely wasted and passed out. We still haven't had sex and she won't put out at all. I have been doing all the work, making all the moves and I haven't even gotten a handjob out of it. I ran into her tonight at a bar and left shortly after seeing her. She texted me "have a nice eveing" don't know if she's trying to be cold to get attention or what but she says she hasn't had sex in over a year. If I try to get sexual with her she says stuff like "don't do this now." or just straight out "no don't do that." what the fuck is this all about? I'm thinking about working on other women and keeping her on the side till she's "ready" I'm an impatient asshole and not looking for relationship so this is tough for me. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 9:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: We sleep but don't fuck, what is wrong??!! |
Yeah,well,she probably made you out as the impatient asshole you are.Women have a certain way of sensing these things. If she did , you're never getting into her pants. |
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| Author: | ASmoothEminence [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 5:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: We sleep but don't fuck, what is wrong??!! |
You are forcing things. State your damn desires, let her know that you can't control yourself. I will back up what R.C said because this happened before. The girl was all over me but she gave me a little shit test right before I ripped open the condom. Basically, she said I wasn't going to have sex with you and I blew my cover and got annoyed. ATTRACTION went down the tubes. And no we didn't have sex that night. So, keep your composure. |
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| Author: | The Mellow [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 10:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: We sleep but don't fuck, what is wrong??!! |
Let her know that I can't control myself? That doesn't sound like a good idea... |
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| Author: | ASmoothEminence [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 3:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: We sleep but don't fuck, what is wrong??!! |
It is all in the delivery and tonality of your voice. You stated that there is a lack of sexual tensions, well what I suggested is to build it. Look up sexual tension and how to build it. Here is a start. esp-model-of-escalation-vt97891.html |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 4:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: We sleep but don't fuck, what is wrong??!! |
As much as you hear people say that women like to have sex as much as men, this is simply not true. My opinion is that there is a certain natural progression to hanging out with a woman, getting to know her, and then sleeping with her. One can reasonably expect certain obstacles and delays in this process. However, some women will completely ignore that process and drag it out it, complicate it, and make it excruciatingly aggravating. There may be no good reason why she is doing this other than she is insecure or unsure, or perhaps has some personal hangups that have little to do with you. There's also the possibility that she doesn't fully like you, or there is someone else she's more focused on, and she's just playing you for attention or until she finds out if she can do better. Believe it or not, I'm going through this exact situation right now with a girl. What I'm doing, and what I'd advise for others, is to just tighten up your game and make sure you are doing your best to game her. Build tension, push/pull, escalate, etc. At a certain point you will need to make it clear that you want to get physical beyond what she is comfortable with. That way she knows there is an expectation and she won't be allowed to continue stringing you along unless she either commits to fucking you or admitting she is not intersted in being with you. Like I always say, do something which will produce a result. Whether it's good or bad, at least you are guaranteed a result. |
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| Author: | iLoveTurtles [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 6:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: We sleep but don't fuck, what is wrong??!! |
what you need play with her body as you are both lying there wondering who is going to make the first move. |
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