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| Author: | prodigy123 [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 4:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help for a Noob! |
Hi guys, I've been lurking around this forum for a while, trying to see if anyone has already asked a question similar to mine. But I guess I should ask you guys directly: So, I met this girl at a friend's wedding. Very beautiful. Did what I had learned from a bit of reading Mystery Method and the Game. Ignored her a bit, talked to her friends, told a lot of jokes in front of her--all the while she watched me. Then talked to her, and she said she worked for an agency, and said you should apply, "I work for this company, I will send you a brochure etc..." She gave me her cell phone number and her email (which I guess she gives to anyone interested). Then 2 days later, I went to a presentation she was giving about the company, which she had invited me to during the wedding. Ended up talking to her for a good 30-45 minutes and she introduced me to all her co-workers. The next day she called me herself "...just to ask you a few questions about your background, our common friends etc..." Indicators: In terms of IOI's, I got a bit of the hair play, but she also completely fixed her hair while she talked to me (I don't know what that means, she actually took out her hair band and redid her hair). Also, she kept laughing at some of my dumb jokes, but didn't seem to get some others. I mentioned an ex-girlfriend of mine, but she didn't mention a boyfriend or anything. One possible negative is that I asked her if she wanted to join me after her presentation for lunch, and she's like "...I have to take all this stuff back to the office and clean the place..." What I need help in: So, now the excuse that I'm still interested in this company has dried out. What should I do next? I know that the masters say I should perhaps ask her to come somewhere I'm already going, in other words don't make an awkward date. Also, what about "text game" or "phone game." The problem is that I'm not good at picking up signals of interest at all, and I've skrewed up potential relationships in the past because I didn't think a girl liked me, only to learn later that she did. HELP! |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 5:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help for a Noob! |
She has shown you several key points of attraction. It seems if the concern was if it was just her in "Sales" mode, and you were just a client and she was wearing her game face. Now that has "Dried Up" as you say. You have all her contact info. Just re-open her, if she reacts positively ...GAME ON! What about "Text Game" "Phone Game"?? are you asking a "How to" ? |
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| Author: | prodigy123 [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 5:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help for a Noob! |
Thanks so much for the reply! Another potential IOI I guess is that she asks me questions about myself/family etc. That is an IOI right? In terms of "phone game"/"dating" yes, please let me know how I should move this forward. I don't think I should actually ask her out on a date between the two of us right? Or should I just invite her out with my friends? Also, when do I start showing IOIs, so far I've been playing it really cool, I am sure that she has no idea I like her. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 5:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help for a Noob! |
Quote: Thanks so much for the reply! Another potential IOI I guess is that she asks me questions about myself/family etc. That is an IOI right?
Yes and a very strong one at that!Quote: In terms of "phone game"/"dating" yes, please let me know how I should move this forward. I don't think I should actually ask her out on a date between the two of us right? Or should I just invite her out with my friends? Also, when do I start showing IOIs, so far I've been playing it really cool, I am sure that she has no idea I like her.
1. Open; If you prefer text here is some great stuff:list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html 2. Build comfort. Just be yourself, laid back and slick. NO pressure. 3. Meet up. Right don't ask for a "Date". but try to keep it low key, but unwavering "Hey you seem cool, I'm going to this Karaoke bar, meet me there at 7! You can entertain me." |
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