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Author:  Atropos626 [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 12:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Girlfriend's being real or am I just a rebound?
Hello guys, first of all I do know very well that I'm posting in the wrong section of the forum but as you all know, the relationship sub-forum requires 20 post and since I'm a lurker here, I don't post much. Anyway, I've this problem going on for quite some time and it's gotten to a stage where I don't know how to handle it anymore.

First of all some backgrounds of me:
- I'd 5 ex
- Managed to escalate sexually fast with 4 of my ex and including this girl as well
- Turns cold when it comes to argument
- Grew up around girls, so naturally have a lot of female friends. Ratio is around 4 : 1
- Always have girls surrounding and flirting with me
- Near photographic memory
- My words are direct
- Waits for her quietly while she talks to her friends

Backgrounds of her:
- 5++ number of ex. Exact number is unknown as she didn't tell me because she disqualifies some of her previous relations.
- Gets boyfriend very easily ( As in getting a new BF under 10 days after every failed relationship )
- Eager to please me sexually ( gave me 3 blowjobs last friday ) BUT hasn't allowed any of her previous BF to touch her sexually ( ACCORDING to her... which I kinda doubt )
- Turns cold when it comes to argument as well and could get upset over trivial stuffs
- Hangs around with a small group of girls ( they dislike her even though they seems to be very happy together ) and has quite a few guys friend that she frequently flirts around with ( even in front of me )
- Very sweet and caring when she's alone with me but if there are friends around, she turns into another person and ignores me NEARLY completely ( besides the smile and eye-batting once in a while, while talking to another person )
- Very cheeky and loves saying what she doesn't mean + mocking me in front of friends
- Good memory as well which she uses to the fullest extent to bring on previous examples when we are discussing an "issue"

Side note:
We got together 2 days after she dumped her previous bf and they were still together while I was going for her.

Problem:

At the beginning of our relationship, she complains that I always have girl surrounding me and couldn't talk to me properly and so, being an AFC that I am/was, I detached myself from my girl-friends (idiotic move, I know) and made myself more available for her but she instead had herself surrounded by guy/friends and treats me with bare minimum attention when I approaches her and screams out to guys to chat with them EVEN when I'm right besides her.

Gets upset and cries very easily over small issues and when she is upset, she totally ignores me. Seems to first put all the blame on me but after a while takes back the blame and put it all on her keeps saying sorry but when I forgives her, she takes it as nothing has happened and repeats it and when I confront her about this calmly, she gets emotional and tries to guilt-trip me which I'll try to freeze her out for a couple of hours ( we text often )

AND THEN...

She keeps on asking me what's wrong? are you angry at me? did I do something wrong??

This women has totally compromised inner-game, so yeah, I need help. Thank you all for reading this though. I appreciate it! I don't know if this help but according to Vin DiCarlo's Pandora box, her type is Tester-Idealist-Denialist



Ps. If possible, I'd like to keep this girl as I've really fallen for her and it's a damn hard thing for me to fall in love. =/
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 1:25 pm ]
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It's harder to troubleshoot a bad situation than to preempt it. As for the title of your thread, you already knew the answer to that. You just don't want to cut your losses.

Here are some relationship management techniques that you can use, but you'll have to cut loose with firm conviction when things get worst.
  • 1. Fuck her brains out. Give her the best fuck of her life. She'll know the difference if she had so many boyfriends. Learn some of my Orgasmic Rhythm techniques here: 2-vt133228.html?postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=15

    2. Sarge other girls. You are getting too needy. You're losing attraction points fast. Competition makes girls horny about you. If they're horny about you, they are more likely to love you. No competition = lesser attraction.
One question, why should you win this girl when she's obviously bad for you, hmm? :twisted:
Author:  Atropos626 [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 11:42 pm ]
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Good question my man, it's just that she's one of the very rare girls that I've actually fell in love with and I kinda don't wanna lose it, which I know, sets my frame to a needy one but regardless of which, you're suggesting that I sarge other girls in front of her and play the same game as her ??

Any advice/constructive criticism are greatly welcomed.
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 1:06 am ]
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according to Vin DiCarlo's Pandora box, her type is Tester-Idealist-Denialist
about as useful as correlating a Myers-Briggs type indicator to a horoscope.
Author:  Atropos626 [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 2:50 am ]
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according to Vin DiCarlo's Pandora box, her type is Tester-Idealist-Denialist
about as useful as correlating a Myers-Briggs type indicator to a horoscope.
Erm... I don't see the purpose of your post.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 3:03 am ]
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Good question my man, it's just that she's one of the very rare girls that I've actually fell in love with and I kinda don't wanna lose it, which I know, sets my frame to a needy one but regardless of which, you're suggesting that I sarge other girls in front of her and play the same game as her ??

Any advice/constructive criticism are greatly welcomed.
Hmm, I guess she's the anti-Atropos626. Yep, she's the one.

With regards to your question, fuck her brains out first-- scientifically. Hit all the right spots that no average man has explored yet. Let her cum from one position before you go to the next type of orgasm.

If you have done that, sarge girls all the time, anywhere, any place when she's around and when she's not. You'll flip the switch. She'll become needy. That's the time when you BOTH become needy. Then sparks will fly.

Enjoy the emotional roller coaster ride. It's one of the best feelings in this world buddy but you'll have to play to win so you'll arrive at a good destination that doesn't suck. :twisted:
Author:  Atropos626 [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 3:39 am ]
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Thanks Hellhound, but on the topic of fucking her brains out - she's a virgin which can barely handle 2 fingers in her while my dick's width is around 3 fingers. How do I work that out?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 3:45 am ]
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Babies the size of more than 4 clenched fists go out of the vagina.

Eat her pussy for around 2 or 3 Celine Dion songs that play in the background before you penetrate her. The time is crucial. Time slows down when we're doing the deed so it helps to time your f-routines properly. :twisted:
Author:  Atropos626 [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 4:10 am ]
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Thanks for the sex advice but until the next time she comes over to my place, Is there any advice on handling her game?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 4:18 am ]
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Thanks for the sex advice but until the next time she comes over to my place, Is there any advice on handling her game?
Look. I managed 3 affairs like yours. That's how you handle her game so you can dictate your terms and make her loyal and faithful to you.

Others may have different solutions. They're welcome. But if you want to know if you got field tested advice, you just had one. Been there, done that. :twisted:
Author:  Atropos626 [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 4:26 am ]
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Okay, so what you're trying to say here is that I'll have to rough it out until the next time she comes over to my house so that I can give her the best fuck of her life ?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 6:55 am ]
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Okay, so what you're trying to say here is that I'll have to rough it out until the next time she comes over to my house so that I can give her the best fuck of her life ?
If you haven't fucked her yet, then she's not your girlfriend yet. If you want to get better terms at the negotiating table, you have to show your value to get what you want. If you are not putting up any value, you cannot negotiate anything or get her compliance.

If you still don't get it, read Hakuna's longer explanation but very clear insight here, use-secks-to-read-your-girlfriend-vt136364.html

If you want to learn how to sarge her efficiently, read Warped Mindless ESP Escalation Model here, esp-model-of-escalation-vt97891.html

Information overload can set you back, so choose what you learn first carefully and go out on field to practice, practice, and practice some more until you can do everything naturally. Based on your few posts here, I'll treat you as an AFC newbie with a bad case of oneitis. Otherwise, we'll just be deluding ourselves that we can solve your problem without working hard on the root of the matter. :twisted:
Author:  Atropos626 [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 7:31 am ]
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Erm... Hellhound, I think you are kinda getting the wrong information over here as we a re already in a relationship and I've gone to a stage with her where no other guys have gone before and I don't get how that makes me a AFC newbie. Though, I'll have to say that I might be infected with oneitis.

Anyway, I am looking for some advice on handling her loads of games that she plays and how to react to her frequent outcry of drama. As usual, constructive criticism is welcomed :)
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 7:51 am ]
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Penis in vagina is much more of an accurate measure of a girl’s interest than smileys in texts, phone conversations, and other forms of affection. The reason is simple, the male/female dynamic. Women use secks to get relationships, men use relationships to get secks (at least this is how it’s SUPPOSED to play out). If she is NOT putting out, she is subconsciously assuming she can get enough affection from you while saving her intimacy for a more worthy man. As a corollary to this assumption, remember that women assume a man who has ENOUGH reproductive value for them to sleep with, would not give them enough attention WITHOUT secks because he has too many other options and/or obligations. So if you allow her smileys to "suffice" as affection and are okay with not owning her pussy, she subconsciously assumes that she can do better than you.

If you’re having mind blowing secks consistently and her attraction for you is obviously high, yet she is shit testing you A LOT, especially around other people, you might be facing a rare aggressive form of shit testing that occurs when a woman feels her secksual market value has been threatened. If a girl is in a relationship with a guy and everyone PERCEIVES him to have much more value than her, she will try and put him down, especially in front of other people, to equalize her value with his. DO NOT “call her out” on said shit tests, that only signals to her that she was able to get an emotional reaction out of you, which implicates LOWER value on your part because only if the both of you were on EQUAL footing in the first place would she be able to affect you in a visible way.
That's a very accurate observation from Hakuna and what happens in the real world. Hakuna's advice also works. It's gold. But of course, that's just my opinion based on real life experiences. If you don't want it, no one can force you into it. :twisted:
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 9:06 am ]
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...I don't get how that makes me a AFC newbie.
This one.
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Thanks Hellhound, but on the topic of fucking her brains out - she's a virgin which can barely handle 2 fingers in her while my dick's width is around 3 fingers. How do I work that out?
If you had some experience with women, you'll know the following:
  • 1. Hymen test. You can test for the hymen and where it is.

    2. Spread her legs test.     If you barely can't get two fingers in, spread both of her legs.

    3. Emotional investment test. Dick in her pussy is a high investment for the woman and indicates high attraction. If you have really managed to get your fingers in her pussy, getting your dick in her twat would be easy as pie.
It's difficult to solve problems without accurate diagnosis. :twisted:
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