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Yes, yes
You say yes quite a lot don't you 
Confidence and competence are connected. But from your point of view, you need more confidence.
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| Author: | Webcam38 [ Sat Nov 12, 2016 10:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | What if qualification sounds strange in my language? |
Me: "Hey... tell me.. are you Swedish?" (Bait) Her: "Yes... why?" (Hook) Me: "Oh my god... I'm a SUCKER for Swedish girls..." (Reel) This bit here, does not translate well to Hungarian: : "I can't even talk to you anymore..." (Release) Will sound like: I dont want to talk to you... "So... what do you have going for you besides your looks?" Would sound rude... " "I like the way you carry yourself." Sound pretentious. A lot of my mates used to drink themselves almost unconscious and they still picked up HBs. Here girls only chase you if you are something like a 19yo muscular water polo player with arrogant attitude and you have rich parents in a big house... |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Nov 15, 2016 8:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What if qualification sounds strange in my language? |
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Here girls only chase you if you are something like a 19yo muscular water polo player with arrogant attitude and you have rich parents in a big house...
Yeah. Sure. Any other excuses? Maybe the reason you're not getting results is that you're using sleezy tactics. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Nov 15, 2016 9:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What if qualification sounds strange in my language? |
I think that the majority if not all of those statements sound weird in any language you say them in. A lot of those statements were likely successful in the moment when approaching women physically because the tone and projection was proper. But while reading it on paper, I could definitely identify with it being "strange". Picking up women isn't in person( not online) is not about what you say, its all about how you say it. You could say O hate you" to one person to make then angry, and say the same to another to flirt with them. Its all within the tone that the words were said in, not the words themselves. Tone is something that cannot be taught through a forum. Your tones will come from the mindset that you're in while approaching women. All one can do on a forum is give you a line that inspires you confidence so that your tone is proper when you say it. The best line in the world won't have success if it isn't delivered the right way. |
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| Author: | Webcam38 [ Wed Nov 16, 2016 8:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What if qualification sounds strange in my language? |
Yes, this does bring back some old memories, when I was 15, I was sent to a speech therapist by my own school council because: I was changing my voice, for cluttered speech, bad vocal tonality, speech deffect, stuttering, high voice sounding like an eunuch, speech anciety, and total lack of confidence. They sent me to a State Therapist paid by the National health service. My speach therapy then in 1990 resulted in little success, and felt kind of unpleasant, (that woman made me read The Love Sonettes from Shakespeare) I did changed my voice but the rest remained unchanged. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Nov 19, 2016 6:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What if qualification sounds strange in my language? |
Your problem is not having something to say, your problem is lack of confidence. Subconsciously you compare yourself to these waterpolo swimmers, and hatefully envy them. What makes you great? What's your advantage over them? What makes you uniquely attractive? Why are you hot? 4 areas to deal with in order to become good with women: 1. APPROACH ANXIETY 2. CONFIDENCE 3. ATTRACTION 4. SKILLS OF CONVERSATION You can't go to no.4 straight of the bat, without dealing with the first 3 areas. Confidence is where the entire game is played mate. Read this: general-questions/guide-for-guys-just-s ... 99768.html And this: approaching-and-opening/complete-and-ul ... 99834.html |
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| Author: | Webcam38 [ Sun Nov 20, 2016 7:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What if qualification sounds strange in my language? |
Yes, yes you are 89% right, but confidence comes from success doesen't it? |
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| Author: | Webcam38 [ Sun Nov 20, 2016 7:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What if qualification sounds strange in my language? |
Yes, yes, my wing in 1993 was a water-polo swimmer, he lost weight, his banter had always been cocky and funny, and he was just there, and then an OLDER chick picked him up, and this made him confident, and I hated all of them, just hung out with them to steal their techniques... |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sun Nov 20, 2016 10:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What if qualification sounds strange in my language? |
Quote: Yes, yes
You say yes quite a lot don't you Confidence and competence are connected. But from your point of view, you need more confidence. |
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