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Author:  somebody666 [ Sat Aug 20, 2016 8:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Anxious to just say "Hello" :\
I read everywhere that a way to fight social anxiety is to just start conversation with random girls.
Or a simple Hello.
When i want to say hello to some girl i never met, i start to think to myself stuff like "im acting creepy, this is almost harrassment" or "Its not normal behavior for a dude to talk to a stranger he doesnt know" then i feel blocked and i just keep walking like nothing happened. (She wont even notice me lol)

I feel a huge anxiety whenever i get into this sort of situations.

Logically i know this is a stupid thing, because they probably are gonna get more nervous than me, and they probably are as insecure or even more than me, and i know that women are more imperfect than men , and as men, we have the power to be in control.

but Subconsciously i just "forget" all of that, and i sort of feel intimidated.. Then i come home and start introspecting and i get frustrated by how my Logical, inteligent brain is contradicting my subconscious :\

Im not religious, to be honest i fucking hate god, but i know a christian priest and the way he approaches people he doesnt know anything about makes me feel jealous.
I want to be like him. Be able to calmly approach a random person, and start talking with confidence about anything he wants.
Even though he was a weak looking, unattractive man, the way he imposed his confident way transmited a lot of respect.

And since that day i said to myself: I want to be like that priest, have no sign of anxiety.

And every since then, i keep reading and praticing, every day i go out and try to just say hello, or a simple Smile, to some random person, i feel blocked. Its irational how my blood starts pumping really fast, and my anxiety kicks in :\

Drugs and Alchool are out of question.

I want some good ideas
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Aug 21, 2016 2:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxious to just say "Hello" :\
Do a boot camp
Author:  somebody666 [ Tue Aug 23, 2016 1:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxious to just say "Hello" :\
Quote:
Do a boot camp
1- im not rich
2- in my country there are no such things
3- what a nice forum, first post i do and i recieve a arrogant answer. Off to some other forum. bye
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Aug 23, 2016 2:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxious to just say "Hello" :\
Quote:
Off to some other forum. bye
Wah. No wonder you can't get women, you run at the 1st sign of a challenge.
Author:  Dragula [ Tue Aug 23, 2016 2:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxious to just say "Hello" :\
Quote:
1- im not rich
You don't have to be
Quote:
2- in my country there are no such things
You never mentioned that part, do crystal ball's work?
Quote:
3- what a nice forum, first post i do and i recieve a arrogant answer. Off to some other forum. bye
How was it arrogant? Bootcamp is a good suggestion, anyway, bye bye chode. No wonder why you're struggling with women
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Aug 23, 2016 6:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxious to just say "Hello" :\
Quote:
Quote:
Do a boot camp

3- what a nice forum, first post i do and i recieve a arrogant answer. Off to some other forum. bye
Lol

Get a grip bro. Thats the root of your issues right there. If you're taking forum adversity(which wasn't even adversity) that personal i can't imagine how you deal with it in everyday life. What you saw was a reflection of something in you, no one was being arrogant. You'll find that on every forum you go, but its coming from you, not them.
Author:  Johnny Utah [ Wed Oct 26, 2016 7:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxious to just say "Hello" :\
I'm not trying to defend the OP or anything, but I am curious...if some of these boot camps (legit ones) are not expensive...where the hell are they?

I would love to join a boot camp myself. I live in Japan and I have done some searching and I have found some in Tokyo. They all are far from cheap though.
Author:  the_christian_grey [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 5:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxious to just say "Hello" :\
OP: Chill out. Meditate ten minutes a day. You priest friend would probably help you if you asked him.

RSD does some fairly affordable boot camps here in the US. I don't know if they go to Japan.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Sat Nov 05, 2016 2:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxious to just say "Hello" :\
I just made a comprehensive guide on this subject, I hope it helps.

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