Hey Jav, it amuses me that I wrote almost the same post yesterday!
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But I like your post too
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| Author: | Jav [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 1:25 am ] |
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Way too much do I hear: okay, I'm meeting up with this girl, how do i lay her from there?/I want this girl to like me again, how? Or on that matter, any question that involves just 1 single girl. What's the problem. We can't help you with one women, however we can help you with women in general. Why is that? There are many factors that come into play during an interaction. No interaction is the same. If it's the same, congratulations, you're a social robot. just kidding. But the point is to look at the generalized behaviours and make conclusions based on that, instead of just 1 case. Many gurus got methods on how you can achieve what you want with that 1 girl. What many people forget is that it often takes practice to sometimes get what you want from that one girl. Pick-up is not a 1 night transformation. The closest advice that one can give in a situation where it just concerns 1 girl: Vibe with her, get her laughing, spark the good emotions. And even that is vague advice. |
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| Author: | Slywalker [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 2:39 am ] |
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Hey Jav, it amuses me that I wrote almost the same post yesterday! be-smart-be-independent-vt59859.html But I like your post too
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| Author: | Ciornia [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 4:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Expectance management/what it takes. |
Quote: What many people forget is that it often takes practice to sometimes get what you want from that one girl.
Exactly. It's necessary to practice, practice, practice. I get the sense that a lot of people think they can find shortcuts, skip ahead, locate a magic formula to become an instant mPUA. But there are few, if any, shortcuts. Picasso didn't start out as Picasso (or, for you Dutch folks, van Gogh didn't start out as van Gogh Pick-up is not a 1 night transformation.  ). He didn't jump directly to the revolutionary styles for which he became famous; he began with the basics, developing a foundational knowledge. Then, and only then, did he use that knowledge as a springboard for establishing his own unique vocabulary. Before you can focus on one, you must learn across many.
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| Author: | Jav [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 11:46 am ] |
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Quote: Hey Jav, it amuses me that I wrote almost the same post yesterday!
haha, I had no idea.
be-smart-be-independent-vt59859.html But I like your post too |
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