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| Author: | Caligula_Belgium [ Mon Jun 03, 2013 1:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Being a drama queen? |
Hey guys, I just blew things with a HB9 and I did it completely by my own. The reason for it being: I think I'm being too much of a drama queen. So I started looking back on successful and less successful pick-ups, approaches, K-closes, ... to notice that I tend make too much of a fuzz about it when things don't go as smooth as they could be. For exemple: this weekend: HB9 who was clearly into me (clear IOI's via texting). Went over to her place, chatted a bit, went in for the k-close just to find out she had a BF. (Even though it's against my own principles I continued). We made out, and she loved it but at the same time she was feeling guilty. We made out a bit more, but the guilt was still there. I tried a straw-man technique which backfired (field report here: straw-man-gone-wrong-vt163391.html) The next day I went back over to her place, it took a little longer but we started making out again until the point her guilt took all over and she told me to go home. That's when I realised I was "losing" and I overreacted (this is the point I tend to do more often). To be brief: She still wanted to see mee, I told her very clearly that the next time I saw her I would just kiss her again (the idea was being alpha en keeping the frame sexual). But in this way I made her choose between her BF and me (which I could never win at that time). So now we almost agreed that it wouldn't be wise to see each other even if we still want to. My main concern is that continue seeing her will friend zone me if I don't act confident in continuing to escalate. My question is that I can't seem to understand what this is revoking in the female mind. One way (I thought) showing alpha and keeping it hot and heavy. The other way I put them (this isn't the first time) for a choice which I am bound to lose. I know I should back off from the drama but I wouldn't know how to replace it without losing High Value in a situation when the girl is in doubt (for whatever reason). |
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