girls are not retarded, if something is incongruent, it is incongruent
prizing is simply in your state of mind, and one thing you say does not nessicarily make it so, if you believe you are truly enough to be with her and that she is silly to think otherwise because there is no reason you are not good enough, then you will simply set that frame congruently, if you do not turly have this mindframe then it will shine through and she will notice the incongruence
just because you say, ''I'm a player, I fuck 200 girls a week'' does not make it so, girls are well aware of this, the words do not all of a sudden make her horny, or magically make you attractive, she has to believe you line up with that image congruently, for you to pull off congruence
if you are unhealthy looking, timid and shy, with terrible body language and a bad sense of style and she approached you, you do not have pre-selection and she is well aware of this, she can tell just by how you act, what you ''demonstrate'' says everything about you
now on the other hand, if she believes she has competition for a guy she finds attractive, it is more motivation for her to make something happen with that guy, you don't want to be openly bragging about fucking other women, this will probably turn girls off from you, rather then turn them on to you
it's better to be desired by other women, not currently sleeping with every women you come accross, this can leave you open for some harsh critism and judgement, not that you should really care but it won't really help you reach an aim, be as discreet as possible when it comes to who you do and do not sleep with, hush up man, it's a secret, assumed but not told, you have had many girlfriends past, girls are interested in you now, but she is who gets your attention right now, she gets to be the ''special girl'', once again, assumed not told
you have obviously read the mystery method, it is better to demonstrate higher value, then it is to qualify yourself, because if it seems incongruent, you will be tested on it, and if it is very incongruent, you won't be tested on it, it will just be assumed you are lieing, and incongruence is a huge turn off for a vast majority of all women
qualifying yourself as a ''pick-up-artist'' simply does just that, qualifies yourself, she can judge you for it and dis-qualify you based on it, there is no reason to tell her what you are, and what you are not, just demonstrate to her who you are, and let her use her chick logic to make out what you have ''demonstrated'' and define who you are for herself, just express yourself and let her do the rest, if you truly are some sort of master voodoo wizard pussy artist who fucks just as naturally as breathing, she will be able to sense it in your thoughts, words and actions alone, no need to verbalize that which is already understood, if you are a pimp, you can bet your ass she is already well aware of your pimp-like ways, no need to convince her
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