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Corey
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 Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 6:14 am Post subject: Why can't they just be fucking honest? |
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| Alright so earlier I was at the Y sitting around resting from working out and this rather hot girl walked past, and I smiled at her, and she smiled back but I noticed as she was walking away she kind of gave herself one of those "eek, wtf?" type smiles. If she wasn't interested then why the hell did she smile in the first place? |
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Chief
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:37 am Post subject: |
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| It's called being polite. If everyone were just completely honest then people would just be rude all the time with little regard for other people's feelings. |
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Corey
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 9:00 am Post subject: |
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| Chief wrote: | | It's called being polite. If everyone were just completely honest then people would just be rude all the time with little regard for other people's feelings. |
Yeah, this is true but there've been many more times than none that a girl won't even look in my direction.....I wish it would've been more like that.......or her smiling because she was actually remotely interested in me. |
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trixsta
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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| Are some guys really this retarded at social behaviour that they now wish people to be impolite? |
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Chief
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 4:56 pm Post subject: |
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| trixsta wrote: | | Are some guys really this retarded at social behaviour that they now wish people to be impolite? |
Chill on the insults. |
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lucky1990
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 5:43 pm Post subject: |
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she probably looked at you because she noticed you were looking at her...try to be less obvious when you notice a hot girl...unless you're actually going to approach her!
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Hybrid13
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 5:52 pm Post subject: |
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| Screw girls being honest, 'course It might be cause I am a really good natural, but I think the challenge it what makes this fun |
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lucky1990
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 6:13 pm Post subject: |
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thats some quality advice you gave there Hybrid.
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Hybrid13
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 6:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Yeah if girls were easy to pickup....well let me put it this way....If video games were easy, and everybody won....nobody would play them |
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lucky1990
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 6:57 pm Post subject: |
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i.e competition is fun....but that doesn't really help this guys situation lol
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Hybrid13
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 7:33 pm Post subject: |
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I was pointing out why if girls were straight forward it would suck
to help the op: oh fuckin well ha ha, how many fish are in the sea? cant get down everytime you run into the bitch fish, and they tend to be evenly sprinkled everywhere throughout the waves |
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Angelz
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| Smiling is a form of greeting, as Chief said, she was being polite. You need to understand that if a girl smiles at you it does not necessarily mean she likes you or is interested in you. However it was rude of her to smile at you then do the "eek wtf?" (as you say) smile afterwards, but that is not a reason for wanting girls to be honest. She hurt your ego, but she doesnt know who you are - so get over it. |
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Corey
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:00 pm Post subject: |
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| trixsta wrote: | | Are some guys really this retarded at social behaviour that they now wish people to be impolite? |
If you have nothing decent to say, say nothing at all, thanx.
| Quote: | | to help the op: oh fuckin well ha ha, how many fish are in the sea? cant get down everytime you run into the bitch fish, and they tend to be evenly sprinkled everywhere throughout the waves |
This is true, and actually, I'm not stressin over it as I've only seen her maybe 3-4 times where I go. Just would've been nice had she not thrown that extra little smile to herself.
| Quote: | | she probably looked at you because she noticed you were looking at her...try to be less obvious when you notice a hot girl...unless you're actually going to approach her! |
Eh, rephrase plz? Dont quite get it. |
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Hobbit
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | If you have nothing decent to say, say nothing at all, thanx. |
A moderator already handled the issue. No need to try to escalate it any further.
Don't worry about a smile lol. She might have just had a weird smile. Or maybe that was her "I want you" face. You'll never know... unless you go talk to her next time. |
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Corey
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| Posted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 5:29 am Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | Don't worry about a smile lol. |
Yeah, maybe I shouldn't look into it as much as I am.....but still...
| Quote: | | She might have just had a weird smile. |
No, the first smile was a normal one but the one after that to herself was a seemingly derisive one.
| Quote: | | Or maybe that was her "I want you" face. You'll never know... unless you go talk to her next time. |
I really doubt that and she's in the martial arts program at the Y so she was heading to the locker room to get ready. I dont really like interrupting people. |
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