(tl;dr'ers: I basically learned the key to permanently eliminate AA. Send me a PM if you want me to help you with it)
Hi everybody
I'm very happy to tell you that, after spending
years exploring personal development shit, I found one technique that is so good,
it's the closest thing to a magic pill I've ever seen. It's called the
Lefkoe Belief Process. I know you're skeptical but if you let me share it with you, you'll be glad you did.
Everything we think, feel and do is a direct result of
our own perception of reality, which is determined by the beliefs we hold to be true. Remember all those times when you've been afraid to talk to girls? Afraid to ask her out? Afraid to escalate? Afraid to fuck her? Yep, all that fear is caused by beliefs. Techniques like affirmations and visualizations help a little, but they don't eradicate fear, because
our behavior is logical, and for as long as we have the same beliefs, we will continue to behave and feel the same way.
The Lefkoe Belief Process is a cognitive technique that makes you stop believing in something. Anything. You may not agree with this, but like Einstein said:
Reality is merely an illusion... albeit a very persistent one. Consider the implications of this...
Our entire life is determined by the beliefs we hold to be true. This technique has the potential to
change your life completely. With it, you can eradicate the fears and inhibitions that are keeping you from achieving your dreams.
So how can you get rid of Approach Anxiety? It's simple:
find all of the beliefs you have that are causing the Approach Anxiety, and then eliminate them. Easier said than done, I know. You need training to be able to do that. Which means that, for now, the best way to be helped is to book a phone or SPAM session with a Lefkoe method facilitator. And because I know that not all of you can afford to pay for it, read until the end of the post to find out how to get a free session.
In an effort to put together a list of beliefs that cause AA, Morty Lefkoe interviewed a number of men with this problem. He found a
shitload of different beliefs for different men, so he had to conclude that the uniqueness of every man's mind makes it next to impossible to assemble a list of beliefs that applies to everyone; However, here's a list of the most common ones. Take a look; you might become aware of some beliefs you didn't know you had.
(Note: The best way to know if you have a belief is to say the words out loud, and then be still for a moment. Ask yourself: 'Does this feel true, at all?' And if it feels true, even a little bit, you have the belief. It's also worth noting that it's possible to disagree intellectually with a belief... and still believe it. "Of course I'm good enough! Look at my accomplishments! Look at all the people that praise me and love me!"... well yeah, but that ugly feeling you get in your stomach when you say the words "I'm not good enough" indicates that you do believe it)
I'm not good enough.
I’m not attractive.
I’m not interesting.
I'm not important.
I'm not worthy.
I’m not acceptable.
I'm inadequate.
I’m weird.
I’m annoying.
I’m a loser.
I’m broken.
I’m inferior.
I’m ugly.
I’m socially awkward.
I’m unlovable / not lovable.
I’m a dangerous person.
I’m a bother to people.
I can’t do anything right.
Change is difficult.
There’s something wrong with me.
People aren't interested in me / in what I have to say.
What makes me okay is having people think well of me / having people like me.
Picking up women is scary.
A hot girl is worth more than a guy.
If a woman isn’t attracted to a man initially, she never will be.
It's bad to fuck up her first impression of you.
Relationships are difficult.
Sex is bad/evil.
Sex is dirty.
I’m bad if I desire sex.
My sexual desire is bad.
It’s wrong to show sexual interest in a woman.
It’s wrong to be attracted to women.
It’s wrong to be turned on by women.
Women don’t want nice guys.
Women don’t want to be bothered.
Women don’t want to talk to guys.
Women want men who...
*are successful
*are popular
*are interesting
*are attractive
*are confident / flirtatious
*are witty / can make them laugh
*are assertive and get what they want
*treat them badly
*can provide financial security
*can provide physical security / can protect her
*have exciting lifestyles
*have money and stability
...and I’m not those things.
Can you see that having beliefs like these would naturally lead guys to be insecure about approaching women? Our fear is not a result of irrationality or stupidity or craziness. It is merely the result of having these beliefs. If our minds held on to a different model of reality, we wouldn't feel this way.
What if your past had been different? What if life had occurred to you in such a way that you had formed different beliefs? Imagine that. You would have no problem picking up chicks left and right, because the beliefs that cause fear and insecurity would not be there,
making it literally impossible for you to be scared.
"Well, jolly good Alex! And how am I gonna change the past, eh?" Don't worry, the past is not affecting you today, so you don't need to change it. The only thing that is affecting you today is the arbitrary meaning
you gave to that which happened to you in the past. A meaning that you can eliminate today.
Here are some useful resources about The Lefkoe Method:
The Lefkoe Method demo:
http://www.recreateyourlife.com/free/
Morty's blog:
http://www.mortylefkoe.com/#
Why Self-Help Often Doesn't Work... And What Does:
http://www.mortylefkoe.com/111009/#
Would you like to stop worrying about what others think?:
http://www.mortylefkoe.com/stop-worrying/
How to get rid of your fears:
http://www.mortylefkoe.com/how-to-get-r ... our-fears/
How to build confidence:
http://www.mortylefkoe.com/040610/#
How the Lefkoe Belief Process works
Part 1:
http://www.mortylefkoe.com/020210/#
Part 2:
http://www.mortylefkoe.com/020910/#
Download The Lefkoe Method "Natural Confidence" program:
http://www.seductiondatabase.com/sdb/vi ... 8&p=114440
Video - Watch a Belief disappear with Morty Lefkoe
Part 1:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYy5WP-c ... r_embedded
Part 2:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8NzdzX4 ... e=youtu.be
Part 3:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InrpHLL5 ... re=related
Part 4:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGrHAybu ... e=youtu.be
Part 5:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbqmoxCn ... e=youtu.be
And guess who took Morty Lefkoe's official training to learn to eliminate beliefs...?
What can I say? I'm a fucking fanboy. I will be glad to help anyone with their particular issue for free (Wether that's AA or something else).
Send me a PM to exchange SPAM usernames. =) *
*If you want to talk to me, but you're having second thoughts because you're embarrassed, DON'T BE. Seriously. I know it's not fun to talk to a stranger about your insecurities, but do whatever you need to do to get over that shame. Wear a mask or something. Turn your camera away or turn it off, whatever. Trust me, you won't regret it.