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Boomshankar
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 Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 4:50 am Post subject: What Sex does to you |
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Disclaimer: I know this isn't a Lay Report (and moderators, you can move it if you deem fit) but I just wanted to know something.
So, let me put it out there: I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. And having not had sex, it is impossible to determine how my personality would change (for the better ?) once i do have sex.
Basically, I wanted to know whether your attitude, general confidence, charisma, body language, etc etc etc etc etc change once you've had sex.
When i think about it, there isn't anything else that is separating me from 'truly' being an adult. I drink, i smoke, I've done drugs, i've had my fair share of responsibilities and problems, I've had a job etc etc) but I've never had sex, and hence, I don't truly feel complete.
Evolutionarily, we are hardwired to eat, fight, and fuck, right?. So, in those terms. I'm just living 2/3rd's of my life right now!
So, yea, please help me out with this one guys.
How have you/ and how do you change once you've had sex ?
Thanks a lot boys,
Peace,
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Reo
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Hey
There are a few ladies here who can probably better answer your questions
they are:
Bonita, Zip, and possibly Killians you should Private message them
From a guys perspective you're change will be that 1. You'll realize what you've been missing out on all these years and 2. You'regoing to want good sex on a consistant basis and there's nothing wrong with that |
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Boomshankar
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| Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 12:45 am Post subject: |
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| thanks man |
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Jac Cecil
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| Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 4:33 am Post subject: |
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| Also, I'd PM my old wing man Gem. He was in the same exact situation as you and he lost his v-card a couple of months ago. What he told me was that now he sees sex as not as big of a deal. Like what's said in the 40 year old virgin, don't put the pussy on a pedestal. |
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Clozer
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| Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 4:45 am Post subject: |
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I don't think that having sex with one girl is really going to change you. You're going to do it, you'll probably be bad, or at best, mediocre at it, and in the end it will all be chalked up to life experience.
Now, the part where sex DOES change you is when you've had sex with a lot of women--I'd say at least 30. After you've had sex with a lot of women you will start to feel confident around women and that confidence will glow from you when you are around women thus making them more attracted to you. This, of course, is going to create the effect of you getting more sex. And you see, it's just like a big snow ball effect. The more pussy you get the more pussy it gets you.
Now if you're a young guy with not much experience here would be my advice to you about women. And just as a disclaimer, this is NOT the way I did it. I did it the wrong way, so let me tell you the right way.
Don't get in a relationship with the first girl you fuck. Have a lot of superficial relationships with women but don't get serious with any of them. Have sex buddies, one-night stands and stay away from prostitutes and get that pussy with your pick-up skills. Fuck your brains out with as many beautiful women as you can possibly fathom but NEVER, EVER get serious with a girl.
Then, when you are just tired of fucking beautiful women night after night and you feel some kind of emptiness inside; when you feel so isolated from all the great sex you've had; then and ONLY then should you consider having a serious relationship with a woman. |
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Jac Cecil
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| Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 4:56 am Post subject: |
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Clozer,
That was the best advice I have ever heard. You should honestly post that in the relationships section and let all the people tied down hear this great thinking. I've never looked at going into a relationship the way you have, but I will from now on. Pure genius my friend. |
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Corey
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| Quote: | Now if you're a young guy with not much experience here would be my advice to you about women. And just as a disclaimer, this is NOT the way I did it. I did it the wrong way, so let me tell you the right way.
Don't get in a relationship with the first girl you fuck. Have a lot of superficial relationships with women but don't get serious with any of them. Have sex buddies, one-night stands and stay away from prostitutes and get that pussy with your pick-up skills. Fuck your brains out with as many beautiful women as you can possibly fathom but NEVER, EVER get serious with a girl.
Then, when you are just tired of fucking beautiful women night after night and you feel some kind of emptiness inside; when you feel so isolated from all the great sex you've had; then and ONLY then should you consider having a serious relationship with a woman. |
This part, at least, is some pretty shitty advice in my honest opinion. I'd feel pretty damn empty after having ONE one night stand, much less fucking a girl (almost) every night. If I want a meaningless orgasm, I'll just jack off but if I want to feel something real, I'd wait till I'm in a relationship. Then again, to each their own. |
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Boomshankar
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I so want to be at that stage you mentioned Clozer. Fucking brilliant.
Thats the response i anticipated, that once you've had a lot of sex, your mindset changes. You naturally begin to attract women.
And honestly, I wouldn't mind having one night stands or meaningless sex. Atleast, not at this stage in my life (i.e: college)
Anyway, yea, i need to pm your buddy,Jac , and figure out a way of getting out of this non-sex mindset and into a sex-mindset. |
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Snoxloser
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| Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 6:02 am Post subject: |
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| man I dont know, I think sex in a relationship is so much better than like one night stands. But then again the first girl I fucked i was with for 2.5 years! |
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