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JSmooth
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 Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 2:09 am Post subject: What I've Accomplished in Just 2 Months |
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This was originally posted in the PMZ but several members thought this should be available to everyone to be able to read. So here it is.
A good friend on the forum reminded me that even though I feel down about where I'm at with the game, I've accomplished a lot in a short amount of time. So this is the actual statistics based on my field reports from what I've accomplished in my life and "The Game" since becoming a member of this forum in October.
This is a quick background story of where my life has been. I started dating in middle school, but was the typical AFC "nice guy" that felt he had to go out of his way to be nice to everyone, regardless of the circumstances.
I went into High School with this same attitude and had a few girlfriends. One of which I was in a relationship with for 3 years to the day, when she told me she had cheated on me with a guy she worked with, and the guys older brother. Ouch!!! I was crushed, and given the option I decided to go ahead and graduate a semester early from High School to get a fresh start in college.
I went to Western Kentucky University, where I moved out of the house. I have my crazy college stories of getting drunk at frat parties. Becoming a stripper for a few months for the money. Hooking up with several women during my 1.5 years there. I partied to hard and was about to get kicked out for grades and attendance. I met a girl who would become my wife.
I went to the Techncial University with my fiance' and graduated getting married shortly afterwards at 21. I worked in car sales, where I had to change my analytical personality to be more sociable. I found my birth parents (I'm adopted) and found out I had 3 half brothers and 3 half sisters. Then I finally got my dream career in Oct. 07 that I'm in now. A few months after moving to Nashville my wife told me she cheated on me with a co-worker! We had a pretty cordial uncontested divorce. I went into severe depression drinking mostly, and refusing to go out unless dragged out by friends. Then I saw the VH1 show, read "The Game" and my life started to change.
What I have accomplished since starting "The Game."
-I have created 5 original openers.
-I have met and sarged with some very cool people from this forum.
-I am in the process of organizing the first PMZ meet up in the US with LA Tripp.
-I have listed to the David D. Double Your Dating Audio Files, Neil Strauss "The Game" & "Rules of the Game" watched Style's Annihilation Method, Mystery "Venusian Arts Handbook" & "How to get beautiful women in bed." Watched Countless Mystery Clips on Youtube.
-I've read countless posts and posted over 700 times on the forum.
-I developed my own mini-method for Online Sarging.
-I have helped several people on the forum get further in their relationships and sarges.
-I have more guy friends.
-I have more women of quality in my life.
-I have gone out 19 times just to sarge.
-I have lost 30 lbs and went from a 40" to 36" waist.
-I am more confident overall.
-I am doing better at work, which could result in bigger bonus's and promotions.
-I walk with my head up, and I am becoming the man I wanted to be.
*I HAVE A LOT BIGGER SMILE ON MY FACE NOW*
Special Thanks to: Mystery, Style, David D., and the members of this forum who helped me develop...myself!!!
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gravesRR7
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Wow, very impressive. You're a perfect example of how this can change a life, and improve yourself to many degrees beyond meeting women.
Mostly, I'm impressed that you did all of this since October. That seems like a very quick turnaround.
It's great to hear a good success story.....btw, you were a stripper  haha. I just never associated a PUA with stripping (yes i realize you did that before PU, but still) That's awesome. Respect man. |
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chio
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Amazing progress jsmooth37076.
All that in a couple months? Props. |
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JSmooth
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| Thank you all for your compliments! I originally did this for selfish reasons to see how I had progressed, but I am glad that it is inspiring some people that it can be done. |
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arthur
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| Thanks for posting J Smooth. My story is similar to yours in many ways, and I hope to be able to post a similar progress report 2 months from now! |
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-ebonic rippa-
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| Yea that's cool mate, for me it's not just about picking up beautiful chicks, it's about becoming higher value. Seems to be same for most of you guys out there, so self improvement ftw! |
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