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thadocta2007
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 Posted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 12:22 am Post subject: what does mystery mean by 'willingness to emote' |
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| Its one of the 4 DHV spikes. Also, if you read my previous post, my first night officially sarging went extremely well. The only problem I encountered was when to pull the target to the side. I couldnt really distinguish when it was appropriatte to give the 'can I borrow your girlfriend' line. Do you think its ok to get ALL the numbers from the set? |
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niceguy
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Seems like you're asking for two different things. Your title asks about willingness to emote and your body asks if it's okay to close the whole group.
1. Willingness to emote - To emote is to express and emotion. You see those smiley faces...     
Basically, you act out your emotions. Sometimes, you can get away with dramatizing or exaggerating the emotions.
2. Is it okay to close the whole group? Sure, but I think the argument will be that you are doing what a person in the friends zone will do.
"Hey, you guys are cool. We should all hang out together." They no longer see you as their romantic prince, rather a friend. Not that it's bad if it's your intent, but to date one afterwards would probably be unlikely. Unless you plan to game her over an extended period of time.
There, of course, is no right way or wrong way. Just the more effective, field tested way and the "lucky" way.
The field tested way is to calibrate and once you've got the whole group on your side, you can ask/tell the group that you will be pulling your target away.
The lucky way is to just get all of their numbers with equal friendliness to all members in the set...call your target later and try to set something up. Once again, it can work if you go into something like this.."Look what you made me do! I had to get all of your friends' phone numbers down so that they won't get suspicious of me getting just yours! (Playfully)" |
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Sat Nov 10, 2007 9:19 am Post subject: |
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1. Emoting doesn't mean you necissarily act out your emotions, but merely convey them. This can be done my acting them out, or it can be done with words, tone, or subtle body language that one might not take as acting them out. If you are coming across as showing no emotions, then you aren't able to be connected to and so you aren't going to be bf material.
2. You can number close a whole set in a variety of ways. Being friends with all. Getting one girl's number as a target and the others as now being friends, demonstrating social proof to your target, that he friends like you and want to hang with you again, also making it easier for her to get to know you safely. Getting them all to give you numbers and want you to have them as targets (easiest with 2 sets and harder the more you add). Also, you can get their numbers and have anywhere from one, to all of them as targets, but do it in such a way, that they think they are giving you the number as a friend, or that you want the other people aside from that target you are getting the numbers from as friends.
An example of the last one, is when I email closed a girl who's bf is good friends with my roomate and I didn't want to create a bad situation. He was asleep (still would work if he was just in another room), so I asked her if she knew his email, then asked for both their emails. I negged her slightly and made her feel like I wasn't trying to split them up (girls don't like that, even if they do want to leave him for you, they'll fight it if you make it apparent). This got me her email and showed me that I was interested in her, but made her feel safe, good technique on girls in relationships if you've been friendly with the guy as well. |
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