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GrownShit504
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 Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 5:51 am Post subject: what do you do when you're not interested in her? |
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| Imagine this role reversal for a sec. There's this girl who likes me and always calls me, texts me, etc asking me "how are you doing" or stuff like that, and when we hang out she gets really shy and always tries to buy me stuff. she's a real afc around me. how do i let her down easy without hurting her? |
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ming
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| Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 6:00 am Post subject: Re: what do you do when you're not interested in her? |
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| GrownShit504 wrote: | | Imagine this role reversal for a sec. There's this girl who likes me and always calls me, texts me, etc asking me "how are you doing" or stuff like that, and when we hang out she gets really shy and always tries to buy me stuff. she's a real afc around me. how do i let her down easy without hurting her? |
easy... thanks, but no thanks... tell her staright....
BUT -
more importantly - you have seen through the looking glass. you know how many men act (afc) when they are too full on with women (buying shit for them, hanging on too much etc).... its not a turn on - its a turn off!! |
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Archangel White Rose
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| Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 12:19 pm Post subject: |
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| Use her! Use her to attract other women. That's what attractive women do. They get lots of guys to buy them stuff and take them out on expansive dates, then they "complain" to their friends how none of the men ever gives her what she really wants. It's called social status and all girls dig it and are in to it. |
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Suavey Ravi
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I wouldnt say you should use her but genuinely befriend her. If she is an interesting person there is no reason not to be friends with her. This means that you know one more person and through her you can meet other interesting guys and girls to further increase your social network.
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