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AlexFire
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 Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 1:45 am Post subject: What do I do with this girl. help! |
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theres a girl I work with that Iv had my eye on for a while, but because of my (long term) Gf n her (short term) Bf, it obviously wasnt an issue i could do anything about.
Went out with her the other nite (Bf& Gf are out of the country) she ended up in my bed, tho we did nothing more thn kiss n cuddle. think she may be using me as a comfort as she goin hospital in a few days n her Bf cnt no wats wrong with her (its complicated) but its something im fine with. problem is, do i send (flowers?) or something to hospital, or visit (she only in for a couple of days) to show my interest, or just let it slide as "just being friends" and keep it casual. She says shes liked me for a while, n doesnt like her boyfriend much. dont know if shes just the controlling type n wants attention from everyone n anyone but i feel a conection.
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Methuselah
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| go to the hospital, you'll be fine if you've already kissed her, just don't overthink this one buddy. it sounds like its already setup for sucsess. |
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AlexFire
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| but she has a boyfriend, and i know shes a bit of an attention seeker, snds like bad news, shes really cute tho, dnt really wanna let it slip. |
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Methuselah
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| in any situation where a girl has told me that "She says shes liked me for a while, n doesnt like her boyfriend much" the boyfriend, has not been much of a problem. plain and simple, go to the hospital as a friendly gesture, i wouldn't even bring flowers, just a simple stopping in. but show no sexual interest in her, and build her attraction for you. |
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seanjohn
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| forget her boyfriend.... she's a confused girl that doesn't need a boyfriend anyways.... by the sound of it you should probably be looking to dump your gf too.... what's the point of a gf if you're stressing about other girls like this? id drop by the hospital... be a "good friend" and then work on hitting that when she's healthy again. |
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